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|Wed, 03-04-2009 - 1:28pm|
Ok, so last night DS & I went over to my parents house for dinner since DH wasn't going to be home until 10:30. My mah always walks me out to my car and we usually talk a little longer, which we did.
Mah: How are things going?
Me: OK, I guess...I have a GYN appointment Thursday and we hope the doc says I can get an HSG procedure done.
Mah: *Rolled Eyes*
Me: What now?
Mah: Personally, I don't know why you're going to the doctor so soon, in your TTC journey. I guess it's because of your generation, always needing gratuity RIGHT NOW! Everything has to come to you as soon as you even think about something.
Me: I have secondary infertility mother, most women that got PG really easy with their first and aren't PG by the 6th month of TTC are going in to see their GYN, we waited a YEAR, how is that not waiting? I feel like I should have went sooner.
Mah: That's what I mean, why don't you just let it happen. You're not getting pregnant for a reason. When it is time for you to have another child, you will get pregnant.
Me: Mah, we were trying to just "let it happen" for the first 9 months! Nothing "happened"!
Mah: I was never on BC, I was never TTC, we always just got PG, we never had to put anything into it
Me: Yeah mother, your kids are 18months, 3 years, & 15 months apart, with a miscarriage in-between every one of them!
The only reason thereâ€™s a 3 year gap is because she got a divorce and remarried, She had a miscarriage before every single one of her children...she has 4 children.
(4 miscarriages, 3 living children, 1 past away - drownedL)
I had a miscarriage before my DS, so I feel like once I do get PG, I'll probably have a MC.
THEN I'LL HAVE TO DO ALL THIS OVER AGAIN!
I really needed to vent thanks for letting me J
What do you think? Do you think going to the GYN, taking Clomid, & getting an HSG procedure done, after 13-14 months TTC is too soon?