Need to vent about co worker!!!!!!!!!
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|Fri, 09-19-2008 - 9:01pm|
Ok- In general, I have been pretty close with this team of teachers that I work with & sometimes we even hang out like go out to dinner after work.... well, recently one of them became pg. Of course I am jealous- she had not been married for a year & it "just happened" as soon as she went off the pill. She is not the problem though, she & the others have been really sensitive not to talk a lot about pg. & babies around me & I do understand if pg. co worker talks about it sometimes - like a "give & take" friendship. Anyway, one of the older workers ( she is a 55 single mom) has been sooooooo insensitive & talking real loud in front of me about her pregnancy, giving her advice to pg. girl, etc. & it has really been bothering me. I used to be good friends with that woman, but now we are drifting apart b/c of her insensitivity.... I just walk away when she does that & talk to someone else.
She has also said all the bad comments like "just relax" "adopt & you'll get pg," & "Maybe you're not eating right".... like the IF is my fault :(. I tried to confront her about it & she said that she doesn't care if we talk about our husbands & she doesn't think she says or does anything wrong!!! We also had a couple of fights about other things lately & I want to be professional & keep the peace at work, but I think I need to distance myself from her for my own sanity-lol just to look out for myself!!!! In my opinion I think she is being really mean when she knows I have IF!!!!! She had her son at age 39 & so she doesn't take me seriously when I say I have IF even though I have been to a specialist for 2 1/2 years!
Thanks for letting me vent :) Marisa