Please help me not SCREAM!
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|Tue, 10-26-2010 - 3:23pm|
Ok so I am aware this might make me sound like a bad person. However if you knew my sister in law I do not think most of you would feel this way.
So a little background. (I am sure some of you guys already know some of this as I have shared it before). My sister in law started going out with this guy when her mother died. I strongly believe she does not love him as much as she thinks she does. She was very attached to her mother and both my DH and my other SIL had significant others. She verbally stated she felt alone and not even a month after her mother passed she was dating this guy seriously. Keep in mind this guy had been trying for MONTHS and my SIL had stated several times she could not stand him.
Fast forward some and the both of them have NO jobs, live in a rental property my other SIL's boyfriend owns, cannot afford the rent, are on food stamps and are now both on unemployment. And of course, they are pregnant. To say I was devistated would be a HUGE understatement. The girl has not talked to me since my wedding over a year ago. She never wishes me happy birthday (Im not sure she knows when my birthday is). So today she messages me on Facebook. Guess what, asking for money. Because somehow she ended up with $150 cell phone bill she can't pay.
I am so mad I cannot stand it. I was respectful but the whole time I was fuming. I told her we could not help her out and said something about taxes we had to pay and some other bills. I just cant believe it....I don't ever say I hate people but I can say if she were not my SIL I would probably NEVER talk to her again. All my DH's family does is ask for money. The only time they talk to us is for that reason.
Sorry I had to vent to people who would understand. I hate to bad mouth my DH's family around him. He feels the same way but his sisters are his only immediate family left since both his parents have already passed away.