Sad Day (loss mentioned)

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Registered: 10-26-2005
Sad Day (loss mentioned)
Sat, 04-03-2010 - 9:47pm

My baby neice Amber Ann was born still born today. SIL went for NonStress test yesterday and they could not find the heartbeat. My SIL was 36 weeks and scheduled for a C-section 4-28. I held her in my arms this morning could not help wondering why god would take something so precious. My heart is broken and now we must plan to lay her to rest sometime this week. Please keeps us and my little angle neice in your prayers.



Me ~ 31  DH ~ 33  TTC #1 since August 2002. Dealing with mild Endo, PCOS, Diabetes, and MFI.

DD ~ 12 from previous marriage

2 rounds of Clomid 2004 – BFN

First RE consult 2008 but was not the right time financially. L

Trying all Natural from 2004-2010

IUI #1 with Bravelle 2/10 – BFN

IUI #2 with Bravelle 3/10 – canceled do to low response. Will try timed BD but not real hopeful. BFN

IVF #1 May/June 2010



Me ~ 31  DH ~ 33  TTC #1 since August 2002. Dealing with mild Endo, PCOS, D


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Registered: 01-13-2010
Sat, 04-03-2010 - 10:19pm


Words can not describe the feelings that I had when I read your post. I am so sorry for your and SIL's loss. I will keep you in my thoughts during this very tough time.


TTC since August 2008. Unknown infertility

IUI #1 September 2009 , BFP with twins in October, miscarriage at 8 weeks 1 day and 8 weeks 3 days

IUI#2 February 2010, no luck there.

IUI#3 March 2010, BFN

IUI#4 possibly in April

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Registered: 03-07-2009
Sun, 04-04-2010 - 9:42am


Please know that DH and I are praying for you, your family, and little Amber. To say I'm sorry for your loss seems inadequate. I wish you all lots of peace during this process. (((((HUGS)))))



DH and I are 33yrs old. TTC #1 since May08| July09- Dx POF|  Aug09- started Premarin, Metformin, and Lupron

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Registered: 10-31-2008
Sun, 04-04-2010 - 9:54am


TTC since 6/2007. 
IVF #1 Jan 2009 - BFN
IVF# 2  April 2009 - BFN
IVF# 3 July

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Registered: 10-27-2007
Sun, 04-04-2010 - 11:10am

I am so sorry for your SIL and your family. As you can see by my signature my daughter was stillborn. I really hope you all were able to take lots of pictures of her, that is where I failed, I only have one.

When your SIL is ready, I found the stillborn board very helpful on ivillage, you may want to send her there. There is also a great website that may be helpful.

My thoughts are with you during this horrible time.

Karen S

Samantha Kelly ~i~ 7/31/07

Karen S

Samantha Kelly ~i~ 7/31/07

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Registered: 08-20-2009
Sun, 04-04-2010 - 11:12am

That's terribly sad news- I am so sorry for you and your family.

Lilypie Maternity tickers

May Baby

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Registered: 10-28-2009
Sun, 04-04-2010 - 1:42pm

I'm so very sorry for your family's loss.


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Registered: 07-30-2009
Sun, 04-04-2010 - 1:44pm


What awful and very sad news. Please know I am praying for your family! Words can't even describe what a tragedy that is, I am so sorry.



I'm 38, DH is 42 and we are TTC #1. We've had 3 unexplained miscarriages and a bout with Asherman's Syndrome but we're determined.

BFP #4! - 1/
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Registered: 10-26-2005
Mon, 04-05-2010 - 7:27am

I want to thank everyone for their kind words and prayers. My SIL and her family need all the prayers they can get. Not only did we lose baby Amber her father is in the same hospital dying. He had a major stroke on Wed and we were pretty much told last night it will be any day. There are not enough words that I can say to the grieving family, nor can I imagine the pain my SIL is going through. We will lay Amber to rest on Saturday and possibly my SIL father at the same time.

I know that in time

Me ~ 31  DH ~ 33  TTC #1 since August 2002. Dealing with mild Endo, PCOS, D

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Registered: 11-10-2008
Mon, 04-05-2010 - 7:49am

How sad and shocking! I can't begin to imagine what your brother, your SIL, you and all the family must be going through!

I wish all of you find strength and love in each other through this difficult time.




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Registered: 01-23-2006
Mon, 04-05-2010 - 10:05am


I am so very sorry for your family's loss. My prayers go out to all of you.