UGH just have to vent

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Registered: 05-19-2008
UGH just have to vent
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Tue, 10-07-2008 - 8:50pm

So I'm sitting here, checking posts and responding, and one of the other boards I post on, one of the girls got a BFP. On her first try. Without really trying...meaning, she didn't tell DH she was charting or anything, and she had no idea what her chart meant.


Now, I'm not a really bitter person, but I couldn't help myself. I said outloud to the comp, "You have GOT to be  KIDDING ME". I scared my cat.


Ugh. I just wanted to share that BS. It's so unfair. I had to go and get my insides jabbed with a freakin catheter, DH had to do his ditty into a cup, and a first try BFP. b-l-a-h.


On the bright side, DH spoiled me with jewelry and flowers for our annviersary. Yay!!




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Edited 10/8/2008 9:28 am ET by kristylee105
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Registered: 09-11-2008
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 9:05pm

Lol, scared your cat. I do the same thing, yell about a thing then scare the bejesus out of them. Sometimes I feel funny about being on this board because I don't understand some of the stuff you do. But I have been trying for over 3 years. My problem is that 2 docs wouldn't even adress the IF because I do have a child and they figured that if I have one I can have another. Only my current doc is starting any kind of testing.

Yeah, it is unfair. I have my fair share of swearing and cursing, (and bawling) about people who can acheive what we can't so easily.

Your DH sounds like a real sweetie. Sounds like you had a good anniversary :)

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Registered: 06-28-2008
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 9:18pm

GRRR, I know many people that got prego on their first month trying.

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Registered: 05-19-2008
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 10:09pm

LOL you can have DH call yours! My DH is soooo good at picking out jewelry. This year he got me a necklace with

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Registered: 06-28-2008
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 11:12pm

Your presents sound beautiful!!

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Registered: 08-05-2008
Wed, 10-08-2008 - 8:05am

Well happy aniversary!!!!! Can't wait to see you!


But I totally know how you feel! When another IFer announces a BFP I feel hopeful, like if it can happen to them it can happen to me. But when those people say "well, I didn't even have to try he he he he", I just wanna smack 'em

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Registered: 05-20-2008
Wed, 10-08-2008 - 8:39am
(((HUGS))) Kristy that can be sooo frustrating, that happened to my SIL and now she has twins.
  

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Registered: 05-19-2008
Wed, 10-08-2008 - 9:30am
Well, I feel bad that I didn't post anything in response to the girl's PG post. I usually bite my tounge and type "Congrats!" but I just couldn't last night. I feel better knowing I'm not the only bitter woman on this board ;-)


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Registered: 01-08-2008
Wed, 10-08-2008 - 10:21am
happy anniversary. how annoying to get an announcement like that. my last transfer was so incredibly painful, and i kept thinking how people can actually do something fun (ie: BDing) and get pg, while here i am, in pain in RE's office. it's totally not fair.

ana


TTC since Sept '06
Diagnosed w/ PCOS, DH diagnosed with azoospermia Dec '06, TESA Mar '07
IVF/ICSI/AZH#1 Aug'07, BFN (6 usable eggs, 5 embies, 2 transferred, 1st beta=18, 2nd beta=12, 0 made it to blast to freeze)
IVF/ICSI#2:retrieval Nov'07, FET sched Jan'08, no embryos to transfer (23 usable eggs, 12 embies, 0 made it to transfer)
IVF/ICSI#3: retrieval Mar'08, FET May'08, BFN (13 usable eggs, 7 fertilized w/ DH sperm= 0 blasts, 6 fertlized w/ DS=3 blasts, all 3 transferred, 1st beta=74, 2nd beta=64, 3rd beta=42)
1st cycle IUI/clomid/donor sperm postponed due to lack of follicular growth on 100mg clomidx5days.

ana

mom to beautiful baby lia.
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Registered: 06-12-2008
Wed, 10-08-2008 - 11:33am
Kristylee ...... I totally understand that...when I first found I Village I was on the regular TTC board and it seemed like everyone was getting a BFP right away....so I went for a search and found this board......although I still lurk at that board....and it does get upsetting how easy and simple it is for some people...
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Registered: 11-04-2006
Wed, 10-08-2008 - 11:55am

Yup, know what ya mean.

Today one of my friends was telling me about her friend back in MI that just got off the pill, they weren't trying, and got pregnant...but not just pregnant with 1 but 3! Triplets...naturally....not even trying. Talk about a jab in the gut...

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