Friend who is "accidentaly" pregnant

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Registered: 05-19-2008
Friend who is "accidentaly" pregnant
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Mon, 05-19-2008 - 7:18pm

Hello,


I am new here but realized today I needed to talk with some people who would understand.  After 7 years of trying to get pregnant my husband and I adopted a beautiful little boy.  3 years later (still trying to get pregnant) I went to an acupuncturist and got pregnant with a beautiful baby girl.  Now after all that I thought I would be content and not have anymore bad feelings about other people and there ease at conceiving.  But not the case, I just found out that my best friend and her husband "forgot" to use birth control and are most likely pregnant and not happy about it (the last 2 times she didn't use birth control she got pregnant and has 2 great kids).  I am so angry!  Angry at her for being able to "accidently" get pregnant, angry at myself that I am not over this yet,. angry that she doesn't really want to be pregnant.....I thought that after my 2 kids that all of this would go away, but it hasn't!


Jen


 


 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2007
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 12:34pm

Jen,


I completely understand.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2008
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 1:42pm

Hi I am new here and I have a question for you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2007
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 10:34pm

Brooke,


In my opinion it is good because it relaxes you.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2008
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 2:17pm

After some fertility (all but IVF) we were told about an acupuncturist who was great at helping woman get pregnant.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2006
Thu, 05-22-2008 - 2:52am

You're not alone, I feel that way too sometimes.


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2008
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 9:31am

Jen,


I understand and feel your pain, anger and frustration.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2008
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 9:37am

Hey Brooke!


Acupuncture is great! It works wonders. For me, it made me very calm, very relaxed, I didn't have those anxieties and worry about was it going to work. It kept me with a very open-mind and very positive attitude. I highly recommend it. I did get my BFP with the use of it.

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Registered: 01-04-2007
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 8:59pm
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2008
Sat, 05-31-2008 - 1:16pm

Jen, was it painful to have the accupuncture?


Thanks Brooke


Well I guess it can't be anymore painful than stuff I have had done already.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2008
Sat, 05-31-2008 - 2:46pm

Brooke,


The needles are painful for me, except when it is close to ovulation.

  

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