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Hi Kim,

I've posted on the IVF and TTCYFC boards, and until now I've been a lurker on the IF support board - but your message touched me and I had to reply to you. I'm so sorry you've gotten such devastating news, and I completely understand how you feel.

My siggy has the details, but I'm 35 with high FSH that has been confirmed as diminished ovarian reserve. I've learned a lot about FSH lately, and I hope this information helps you!

First, it sounds like the FSH test was run by your regular OBGYN. If so, I encourage you to find a RE who has experience with high FSH women. A good RE will run further tests that will give you more information about your chances and will recommend whether you should proceed with IVF or other ART.

FSH levels do fluctuate monthly, so one FSH test shouldn't be used as confirmation of an inability to conceive. Honestly, one level as high as yours probably means your ovaries are 'challenged' - but it doesn't mean you are out of the running. Other tests, such as AMH level and antral follicle counts (done via ultrasound) can confirm ovarian reserve and give you more information about your conception chances.

There are many success stories of women with high FSH going on to conceive, usually through the guidance of a good RE. You should definitely not give up hope at this point!

Some resources that have been great for me:

http://highfshinfo.com/

http://www.fertilethoughts.com/forums/high-fsh-premature-ovarian-failure/

The book "Unsung Lullabies: Understanding and Coping with Infertility" by Jaffe, Diamond and Diamond. - The emotions you are feeling are very normal, and this book has helped me feel validated as my DH and I continue on this crazy TTC roller coaster.

These boards are also a great source of support, and please know that you're not alone!