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|Sat, 12-01-2012 - 10:39am|
I was just wondering how some of you deal with the stress of infertility. I'm looking for answers from anybody going through this, but especially those of you who have been dealing with it for years. My DH and I are in our third year of TTC, and it is so stressful. This might sound unbelieveable, but we rarely fight about anything - except TTC. I am very young and none of my friends have even begun to think about having kids, so I don't feel like I have any friends to talk to about it. Since DH is going through the same thing I am, I thought I could vent to him, or cry every once in awhile. (Okay, more like 2-3 times a week.) He feels overwhelmed because we are struggling with male infertility, so he feels like I am complaining about him or yelling at him for something he did wrong. This is especially true since we think a big part of the problem is the vasectomy he had thirteen years ago. He feels like I am blaming him, when I am really just looking for reassurance and comfort.
Just looking for a little bit of advice on how those of you out there are getting through this and some suggestions for dealing with the stress.