ok i need a little clarity here.
FYI...depending on the grade and quality of the embies....in General...FET carries a 40-45% success rate at our age range. Fresh....AGAIN...depending on Egg Quality/Grade/ etc....is about 50-55%.
I was always caustiously optimistic.....but expected to fail. My AMH wasn't AWFUL....about 2.3-2.5. I got 17 eggs at each ET...not bad for a 37yo (IVF 1) and 39yo (2nd IVF)..... but I miscarried the second IVF due to the crusty nature of my eggs! LOL. That's when I paid my sister to give me HER eggs for IVF #3!!! LOL. I have 9 on ice..in the vent that this PG does not progress well...... and was told by my RE that the quality of the eggs gives me a 40-45% FET success rate.
thank y;all so much. i really neede that. the decision is made, he is going to korea in august. i am going to talk to the RE about freezing all the embies and we will go from there..
He would go In August for a year.
WHat a predicament you must feel like you are in. Either way, both options have drawbacks...and benefits. I am a "The time is Now' Gal. I'm a few years older than you.....But I will say that at age 37..when we did our first IVF...I knew here was NO putting this off. If everyone waited until the timing and circumstances were "perfect"...we would never acomplish what we set out to do...or by the time we did..it might be too late. I agree with you..that if the IVF does NOT work...Korea would be a much more interesting option to "visit" than plain old AZ...LOL. BUT..if it DOES work (The IVF)....I would personally prefer 2.5 years of weekends/holidays/leaves with my husband
i actually thought about that about 1 am last night. i think it is an interesting possibility. i will talk to DH and RE about that. I will look at his stats, but do you know success rates for FETs? Thanks for taking the time to respond. i am sick about this.