Hi Fay, welcome to the Board.
I am sorry you have already had a hard time getting started with this IVF process.
Me, 38, dh, 35
3 IUI's - BFN
IVF #1 - Jan '08 - BFP - beautiful baby boy born 10/10/08
IVF cycle #2 - TTC
I wish I had some magic words to make all of your pain go away.
sorry you are going through such a tough time.
----"Never give up on something that you can't stop thinking about every second of every day."----
I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. Infertility is very tough, and I don't think enough people are aware of exactly how trying it can be. In a way, it's very good that you had all of this testing. It will make the IVF treatment more likely to succeed, and hopefully it will shorten the time for your BFP. I don't like the idea of using IVF cycles to "learn" what's wrong, which is commonly done, and we just end up sore from injections and emotional let downs.
The best advice I can give you