Sept. buddies (2010) how are you doing?

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Sept. buddies (2010) how are you doing?
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Fri, 10-22-2010 - 10:33am

I haven't seen any recent post from any sept buddies and I was wondering how you all are doing. Those of you who got BFP's or BFN's what are up to now?

As for me- ivf feels like a dream to me, I still can't believe its done and I got a bfn, it feels like so long ago...I definitely have my sad moments but for the most part I am coping well. Someone once said that you should plan things to look forward to and it makes this journey easier, I totally agree. I am looking forward to Christmas I even started shopping, its my most fav. holiday.

Ttc was of my mind until my MIL told me that she is 80% sure that I will be preg either in Dec. or Jan. I was shocked but she was so sure, she is very superstitious. So now there is a hint of hope that she is right even though I know that my docts said there is a one on a million chance I could get preg. naturally. I hate having hope and then being disappointed af is supposed to come before christmas now if she comes I will be even more disappionted.

Anyways I hope you all are coping well.

Amanda

Me - (Amanda 27) My dh-- 26 We have been ttc # 1 for 3yrs 5mths My dh has severe oligospermia, Ivf with icsi is our only option. Ivf # 1--- failed Ivf # 2--- failed Ivf # 3-- hopefully in March 2013 at a new clinic!

 

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Sun, 10-24-2010 - 10:36pm

Carolyn, GOOD LUCK tomorrow, I can't wait to hear your POSITIVE news.

Chris


Me, 38, dh, 35


3 IUI's - BFN


IVF #1 - Jan '08 - BFP - beautiful baby boy born 10/10/08


IVF cycle #2 - TTC

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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 5:37am

Thank you Chris. You take care of yourself today. I am so sorry you have to do this at all but as I said I think it's the right way to go because I've done the other way and it was so long and drawn out. January will be here before you know it! This year is flying by!

I am extremely nervous about today. I just want this so badly (as we all do) and I guess I am expecting to be disappointed because that is all I've ever known regarding this process but I pray that one day it will be my turn. My daily devotional today said to remember that you are exactly where you are meant to be NOW. So, there is a plan and I have to have faith that this will work out.

I will post later this afternoon. I can't post at work because the site isn't available. So hopefully it will be good news!

Carolyn

Too many IUI’s, IVF’s and failed attempts to count.

TTC #1 since 2005
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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 9:48am
Hey Chris, I just want to let you know I will be thinking about and praying for you today. I hope everything works out as best as it could in this situation. Lots of positive thoughts headed your way.

Amanda

Me - (Amanda 27) My dh-- 26 We have been ttc # 1 for 3yrs 5mths My dh has severe oligospermia, Ivf with icsi is our only option. Ivf # 1--- failed Ivf # 2--- failed Ivf # 3-- hopefully in March 2013 at a new clinic!

 

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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 9:51am
Hey Carolyn, I'm hoping to hear some good news from you today. I agree with you we all have to have faith.

Amanda

Me - (Amanda 27) My dh-- 26 We have been ttc # 1 for 3yrs 5mths My dh has severe oligospermia, Ivf with icsi is our only option. Ivf # 1--- failed Ivf # 2--- failed Ivf # 3-- hopefully in March 2013 at a new clinic!

 

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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 3:49pm

Carolyn - FX for great news from you today!!

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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 3:52pm

Chris - thinking about you today.

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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 4:34pm

It was negative. I still can't believe it...I really thought this was it.

Carolyn

Too many IUI’s, IVF’s and failed attempts to count.

TTC #1 since 2005
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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 6:27pm

Hi ladies,

Well we finally had our ultrasound and we have one little baby with a heartbeat of 150 bpm!!!

Me - 37 - 1 DS - 19 years old, DH 43 - 1 DS 14 and 1 DD 16 (no children together)


Married for 6 years and parents to our fur-babies Moses and Joshua (Maine-Coon cats) and Henry our 7 month old lab-cross puppy.


DH had vasectomy many

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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 6:30pm

Carolyn,

I am so sorry.

Me - 37 - 1 DS - 19 years old, DH 43 - 1 DS 14 and 1 DD 16 (no children together)


Married for 6 years and parents to our fur-babies Moses and Joshua (Maine-Coon cats) and Henry our 7 month old lab-cross puppy.


DH had vasectomy many

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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 10:09pm

Hey Mandy,

Brooke (34) DH (42)

ttc for #1

off bc since Aug 2005

me, hostile cm due to leep procedure in Aug 2005

dh, perfect
mc at 6 weeks May 17 2009