sorry been MIA

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sorry been MIA
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Mon, 10-17-2011 - 4:46pm

Hi ladies..

I was supposed to be an august cycler.. It had taken me this long to write this message...

Dh and I decided not to move ahead with IVF.

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Registered: 08-08-2011
Mon, 10-17-2011 - 8:42pm

Danielle: I was an August Cycler. You have had quite a journey, and I'm sorry that ANY of us have these kinds of stories to share. Our desire to have babies sometimes becomes "obsessive"..and in the mix of it all...we sometimes forget to take care of ourselves!! You have made a difficult decision.....but it really sounds like you are doing what you need to do for YOURSELF and your Hubby! Families are creatd in all kinds of ways...and IVF just might not be the right path for you. You have to be ALIVE and WELL for your babies....so do whatever you need to do to give yourself the best hope and LONGEST life!! Once upon a time..after Cervical cancer in college..I was told I'd never have babies. But our first and second IVF's were successful...though our recent August cycle ended up in an 8 wk. M/C. Miracles happen everyday.....perhaps, if you and your DH decide you realy want to mke a family...then adoption might be just th right place for you to make that happen.

Your sound strong....and determind. You STAY that way!!!! Your are and will be an inspiration to many!