We need good thoughts: 6th IVF with Surrogate

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Registered: 04-07-2012
We need good thoughts: 6th IVF with Surrogate
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Sat, 04-07-2012 - 3:40pm

Hi,

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Registered: 11-30-1999
Fri, 04-20-2012 - 9:41pm
Saddened to hear about your cycle. But don't lose hope. What did your RE say? Can you try another donor or another clinic? It seems that with that many different surrogates, the eggs would be the issue. I will definitely continue prayers for you guys.
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Registered: 08-04-2008
Fri, 04-20-2012 - 7:18pm
I'm so sorry (((hugs)))

Elizabeth (31) DH (36) TTC #1 since July 2008

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Fri, 04-20-2012 - 2:31pm

sorry it didn't work out.

----"Never give up on something that you can't stop thinking about every second of every day."----

Chris 

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Registered: 04-07-2012
Fri, 04-20-2012 - 7:27am
I guess that's why I am feeling angry. The donor was from the clinic and was thoroughly tested they said.

Thanks for all the good thoughts and caring! x
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Registered: 08-08-2011
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 12:19pm

Since all of the eggs came from One Donor (I think that is what you said?)....could we perhaps consider that this donor may not have had proven..successful eggs? Just thinking aloud.......

Was the a proven donor at your clinic? Or a donor you selected? My IVF Buddy here...tried to use her sisters eggs..because she was only 23...and did not suffer from the same Disorder as My firend (who had to have her tubes removed).......so they ASSUMED her eggs would be young and loverly. However...One fresh cycle and two FETS laters...they learned that her sister also had "poor Egg Quality". They should have tested her more thoroughly.....Maybe. I used DE my last IVF...from a Proven Donor...who ALSO happened to be related to me. She has aided more than 12 couples get their BFPS!!!!

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Registered: 08-27-2008
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 11:28am
So sorry for the negative!!! Sending love and {{{HUGS}}}

Caryn
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Registered: 02-29-2000
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 11:02am
I am really sorry to hear that!! I, also, had hoped this would be the one for you. Do you have a follow up to discuss more options or changes that might give you a better result?
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Registered: 08-08-2011
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 7:37am

Aww Dads2...I'm so Sorry...That is quite a few cycles with Surrogates you have been through! I have been watching the board hoping THIS cycle was the ONE!!!! I know at this point you have invested a lot of time, money and EMOTIONS into your process.....I REALLY hope you don;t give up.

Sending Hugs and Support your way....and if you decide to try again..... We are here!

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Registered: 04-07-2012
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 2:05am
We just got another negative. Pretty distraught. :-(
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Registered: 08-04-2008
Wed, 04-18-2012 - 11:02pm
I can't wait to hear the results! Did you fan with palm leaves?? ;)

Good luck!!!

Elizabeth (31) DH (36) TTC #1 since July 2008

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