I Don't Know What to Think

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Registered: 11-18-2007
I Don't Know What to Think
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Wed, 04-30-2008 - 1:36pm

Last night I noticed that my belly is shrinking and I again noticed it today. I also noticed my pregnancy symptoms are subsiding. So, I decided to take a pregnancy test. I was horrified to see that the second line was hardly there at all. Then, I took a second test when I needed to pee again. It was an internet cheapie like the other one, but a different brand. The second line came up right away but it was more faint than the control line and more faint than the test I took a couple weeks ago. I'm a mess right now. I don't know what to think.


I told my dh and he laughed at me for taking a test in the first place. I broke down in the kitchen while he was getting ready for work. When we were leaving, he asked what was the matter and I just told him that I still have the migraine from yesterday... which was true. We didn't talk the whole drive to his job. When we got there, he asked why do I have to lie to him and to tell him what is going on. I didn't say a thing and he was pissed and stormed out of the car and went to work. I felt crushed because he laughed at me for taking a test and didn't take my feelings into account. I didn't feel he deserved to know anymore of what I was going through. Was I wrong to feel this way and shut him out?


I'm a mess right now. I don't know what to think or do right now.


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Wed, 04-30-2008 - 2:31pm

I'm sorry to hear about the situation with your DH Mary.

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Wed, 04-30-2008 - 3:46pm

(((MARY)))

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Registered: 06-14-2005
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 4:55pm

I'm so sorry you are going through this!!! Can you call your doc and see about a blood test to check your levels? Hopefully it is just nothing (and I do remember with Maddie it was like one day I felt "normal" and would freak, but the next day everything came back). For your peace of mind I would call your doc and have them check you out. I'm so sorry your DH got angry, that couldn't have helped matters any!

I'm thinking of you and will keep you and your little one in my prayers! Update when you can,

Hugs,

Beth






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Registered: 12-18-2006
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 6:18pm

Oh Mary ((((HUGE HUGS))))


Call your OB right away and demand to come in for an u/s to see whats going on.

Jennifer


mom to Elijah 12-27-04 and Gabrielle 11-4-08


 

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Registered: 09-14-2006
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 6:43pm

{{{{{{Hugs Mary}}}}}}

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Registered: 10-30-2007
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 7:08pm

{{{{{HUGS}}}}} Mary.

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Registered: 11-18-2007
Thu, 05-01-2008 - 5:23pm

Thanks for all the support ladies. It means so much to me.


I talked to my dh last night and he said that it was his only way to cope in a situation like that. It is so hard for him to get excited because of what happened last time. He didn't mean to laugh. He just didn't know what to do anymore.


We went to see the nurse today. Everything is set up for me to an OB/GYN in a week or two. My U/S is next week, but I have to reschedule it for morning so dh can be there. Blood tests and a urine sample

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Registered: 12-18-2006
Thu, 05-01-2008 - 7:50pm
Im glad they are doing b/w and giving you an u/s.....

Jennifer


mom to Elijah 12-27-04 and Gabrielle 11-4-08


 

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Registered: 10-30-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 7:59am

Hi Mary,


Glad you are going to get you u/s soon & see the OB.

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