I'm out, maybe for 2 months :(

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Registered: 03-20-2007
I'm out, maybe for 2 months :(
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Thu, 03-07-2013 - 11:47pm

AF showed this morning. On the bright side at least it was right on time and not late. On the down side, I think we will not be TTC this cycle. And maybe it's just because I am totally upset today, but I'm thinking about not "trying" at all for a while and just seeing what happens. Which would be hard, since my cycles are like clock work, so it would be hard to not try. But I do know we do not want another December birthday. Maybe that sounds stupid, but DD and I already have birthdays the same week, and if I was due in Dec, it would be the same week. Then I think, well, what if I had the baby early or what if I get pregnant with a January baby and have it early anyway. I know, I'm too much of a control freak. Clearly I do not have control of this situation! Ahg! 

 

 

 

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Fri, 03-08-2013 - 1:06pm

That totally stinks :(  I understand about having a December baby, maybe just take it easy this month and try hard not to try?  Easier said than done, though..  

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Tue, 03-12-2013 - 2:33pm
I understand. I use to feel the same way, but after over a year of trying I've said f it. :) I just want a baby!! Do what you need to do. Follow your gut and heart - it will all work out! Brooke

 

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Registered: 03-20-2007
Wed, 03-20-2013 - 12:55am

Thanks! I haven't been around much in the last week, computer problems and Ivillage problems (I can't get rid of my old pregnancy ticker - from when I was preggo with my now 3 yr old! What's up with that Ivillage?)

Anyway, DH and I decided not to stress about it, but to try and skip this month. Then we will start trying again, I calmed down :)  I SO wish I was charting though....I think I O'ed early - like day 10-11? We BD on day 7 thinking it was to early to matter - oops!  I'm not counting on it making a difference anyway, but I have to admit I wouldn't be disappointed either Wink

 

 

 

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