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Wed, 03-02-2011 - 3:36pm
Back up here it seems... CD 1.. Does any one know if having had the copper iud in for about a year and a half has anything to do with me not conceiving? I got it taken out december, thought it woulda happened by now :(
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Registered: 12-14-2009
In reply to: krissy_poo
Wed, 03-02-2011 - 3:56pm
Boo!! I'm sorry!! :( Your IUD shouldn't have any affect on your fertility. But remember, even trying for another child, it can sometimes take a few months. I'm really sorry! I hope this is your month!! :) A sweet little Xmas present! ;)

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In reply to: krissy_poo
Wed, 03-02-2011 - 6:38pm

I hate CD 1. I don't think the copper IUD wigs your fertility too much. Just need to roll the dice again this month. Go babies!

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Registered: 08-02-2006
In reply to: krissy_poo
Thu, 03-03-2011 - 9:32am
your right, i guess it would take a few months, its just taken me a year to decide when im gonna try and conceive, it never crossed my mind that it wouldnt happen as soon as i got my IUD taken out loL ive always wanted 3 or 4 kids, since my current two are only 13 months apart, i want the next two to be about a year apart also, i hope my body cooperates with me! I want my kids to be pretty close in age and my daughter will already be almost 5 by the time (if i conceive soon!) i have another baby, i just hope thats not too big of an age jump, my sister is only 4 years older and we were never close as kids, (as adults we are now) but yes im done blabbing loL looking forward to O time! cross fingers!! :D
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Registered: 12-14-2009
In reply to: krissy_poo
Thu, 03-03-2011 - 10:04am
Yeah this TTC business isn't easy and I wish that we could get pregnant as quickly as we want. My oldest will be 12, middle 9 and the youngest 5 if we conceive this year. I always wanted a big family but my ex took care of himself without telling me after my 3rd was born so I had to just make my realize that I wasn't going to have anymore. Than I met my husband and while dating, of course I never thought of having anymore until the day I fell in love with him and it was over with! LOL I couldn't wait to get married so we could start trying and I think we were married for all of a day when I threw my birth control out! :D I kinda assumed that we would get pregnant right away, when it didn't happen before he deployed, I figured the birth control was still in my system, no big deal, I'll prepare my body and track my cycles like I was trying and when he got back, it'd take a month max. Well...he's been back since August 2010 and I have no freakin' clue why it hasn't happened yet. UGH! So this is tough and the older my youngest gets, the more we think that it's going to be too big of an age gap and too hard of an adjustment for everyone...well hopefully this is our month. :D

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Registered: 08-02-2006
In reply to: krissy_poo
Thu, 03-03-2011 - 1:19pm
Wow, I woulda been so mad if my SO got fixed without telling me! My two first kids are with my ex, I was pretty young and naïve, he's just not family material, he's just interested in his computer games, he only works two nights a week at a bar and thinks that's enough which is ridiculous lol but now I'm with the most perfect man, I actually went to elementary school with him :) he's got a 4 year old daughter with his ex wife. We both want a big family so I'm just wanting things to get on the road! Lol twins would be wonderful, to bad we can't just make an order of what gender and amount we want along with birthday haha
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Registered: 08-02-2006
In reply to: krissy_poo
Thu, 03-03-2011 - 1:24pm
Oh and p.s I concieved my yougest while I was on BC, he wore a condom AND pulled out and we only BD ONCE! That's why I'm just so confused why now its taking so much work lol the same happened with my fourth pregnancy which I had a MC, that's why I got the IUD cuz the pill just wasn't workin for me
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Registered: 12-14-2009
In reply to: krissy_poo
Thu, 03-03-2011 - 1:42pm
Yeah, my ex was an a$$ LOL He only got fixed so that all the women he was screwing behind my back wouldn't get knocked up. LOL Funny thing was that we talked about it after we had our 2nd child because we had one girl and one boy and he literally said that he wouldn't want to ruin his chances with his next wife. You can see how this guy was. I was an idiot! LOL Now he's fixed and has a new wife whose young and naive. He sees the 3 children a couple weekends a month if he can find time and on those weekends, he works and she watches them until he gets home. Oh, he's Dad of the year! Don't even get me started! LOL But my husband Jason, oh, well he's absolutely divine! The actual living and breathing Prince Charming so NOW I'm trying for #4. I was Fertile Mrytle when I had my 3 so DH thinks it's him. :(

On your P.S. Holy cow, talk about Fertile Mrytle! You had protection like Fort Knox and you still got pregnant! I can understand why you're wondering now! We'll get there, it's probably just we're in that 75% that doesn't get lucky each month. But our 25% will come! I know it!

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Registered: 01-06-2005
In reply to: krissy_poo
Thu, 03-03-2011 - 1:44pm
Ya, I know it...With my other 3 kids I was pregnant right away. my 3rd took 3 months and that was the longest. I never thought we would still be trying after 9 months. It is very confusing and it ticked me off when my doc told me "well you are getting older and your body is changing"....WHAT!! I mean ya I am getting older but I am only 29 I shouldn't be having trouble getting pregnant at 29 I mean heck 39 maybe but i am not that old. I was really hoping to have my last baby by my 30th birthday for that reason and now that wont happen. I too wish we could put in an order and get what we wanted ...that would be nice...I guess all the years of Birth control so I didnt get pregnant have now screwed me.....