Ahhh ... I just qant to scream

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Registered: 01-16-2009
Ahhh ... I just qant to scream
Tue, 06-28-2011 - 5:59pm
Hey ladies ... So I've been off BC for 2yrs but trying trying for a year ... So my cycle is typically 32 days like clock work ... I got one of those apps on my phone and when it says AF is here ... Shes here ... Anyways ... LMP was May 20th ... AF was due week ago today .... POAS Sunday the 26th and again today ... BFN ... I could scream .... Y must my body tease me ... Either give me AF or BFP so not fair ... Called Dr and she said wait a week and test again if its negative she wants to give me something to cause me to have a period ... I got the feeling that she doesn't even think I might be pregnant since my test was negative ... Im always like clock work .... I'm going crazy ladies ... Help ...
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Registered: 06-28-2011
Tue, 06-28-2011 - 9:57pm

Hey hon. Some women don't get a positive on an HPT until they're about 6 weeks or so. It depends on the hcg. Also, a blood test would be the best way to go. If the blood test shows negative then you'd really have to say you're not. I went through this back in March. I missed my period for a total of 2 weeks. I took tests back to back and they were all negative. I got a blood test done when I would've been 4 weeks and it was negative. My gyn sent me for a sono and it came back that I have pcos. That's what caused me to not have a period. I got my period 2 days after the sono. I still thought "omg could I have been pregnant and I'm miscarrying??" because I read so many stories on the internet about women who didn't get a positive through blood either and they were pregnant. I thought when i got the sono done I was still early (which I was, only would've been 4.5 weeks so the sac wouldn't have even been there). I freaked myself out but no, I was never pregnant. Up until last month, my period was coming every 6 weeks. Last month and this month it came on at 3 weeks and 4 days which was typical for me so I'm hoping my cycle goes back to normal so I can finally ovulate again. I know it's so frustrating not knowing what's going on but I don't believe you're pregnant hon. I think maybe your doctor ruling things out by doing a sono and then giving you something to bring on your period is a good thing. Also, if your period continues to be messed up she could put you on Clomid or Femara. Good luck.

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Registered: 12-15-2008
Sun, 07-03-2011 - 10:45am
I am sorry you are going through this. It sucks not having conclusive answers.

I agree with PP - a blood test would be the best plan. I would not take what your DR wants to give you to bring on AF until you have had B/W done.

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Registered: 04-12-2009
Mon, 07-11-2011 - 5:39am
I see this post was a while ago so I hope that you got your BFP! But I def. would not take anything to cause af to come if you dont have a blood test to confirm no pregnancy.