BFF got a BFP :;(

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Registered: 08-17-2011
BFF got a BFP :;(
Sat, 08-18-2012 - 2:06pm

I am crying my eyes out right now. My BFF more like my sister since I was like 8 just got a BFP. She and her boyfriend who  are not even living together were not trying, in fact she did not want it. 


She called me and texted me her BFP photo this has made me so freaking sad....WHAT ABOUT ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I want that! I been trying for 14 cycles! WHAT ABOUT ME GOD! 


Am I being punished??? LORD PLEASE...... sorry I am a mess right now ladies

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Registered: 03-03-2012
Sat, 08-18-2012 - 10:37pm

You poor thing! Believe me, many of us know exactly how you are feeling today! It is so frustrating to see all our friends get the thing we want most without even trying! And we are bending over backwards to do everything to help our own chances.

Just know that you are NOT alone, there are many of us who feel these same emotions and we are here to listen and offer support to you! Take some time to take care of yourself and then you can help take care of your BFF.



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Registered: 07-24-2011
Sun, 08-26-2012 - 4:04pm

I feel your pain...

I woke up this morning to see a text from my best friend, a pic of her BFP! She's only been trying for 3 months and she only decided to TTC because my DH's sperm count went up to 20million so she thought we could be PG together.

Me and DH have been TTC for 2 years this month, that picture was like a kick in the teeth. I cried too, I still am. I don't understand why everyone else can do it but us??

I'm on my second cycle of soy, last month DH was out of town when I O'd so obviously wasn't expecting a BFP. I'm also taking evening primrose oil this month. I don't have any issues with O but I heard that soy can make you release more eggs, so that's more targets for him I guess?!

I know it's hard, and I wish someone would just grant me this one wish already :smileysad:(