Grrr when it counts, He's too Tired?!

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Registered: 12-14-2009
Grrr when it counts, He's too Tired?!
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Thu, 09-16-2010 - 7:10am

Oh I'm just so frustrated this morning!

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Registered: 08-20-2009
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 7:53am


That sucks, Tammy. You know, despite all of our explaining, I'm not sure men understand that there really is just a small window of time to conceive each month. My partner and I started out Not Preventing, but I realized after several months that our BD schedule was not going to work out for making a baby. When we moved into actively trying, I still couldn't get him to fully understand that not every BD would count towards making a baby. We had timing issues big time because of his work/travel schedule, and I felt bad when he was home during the fertile window because I'd want him to BD as much as possible, which just isn't our usual schedule and he didn't seem to understand the necessity. I'm not sure how I made it finally realize that if we were going to get pg, he needed to cooperate better. It is tricky though, because you don't want to take the fun or intimacy out of it either. Honestly, it wasn't like I always wanted to BD 3 times in 3 days, but since I knew it was necessary, I dealt with it and finally he understood it too. I'm sorry that you are dealing with that and I hope that if you don't get your BFP this cycle, next cycle goes better!

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Registered: 12-14-2009
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 8:05am
You know Andrea, you're right, they don't get it.

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Registered: 10-05-2006
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 9:53am
Guys don't get it sometimes. We do have a small window for conception. I have definitely BD when I wasn't in the mood but needed to because of my window. Guys need to suck it up and provide that baby juice. :)
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