Hatred for DD's sperm donor...Advice???

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Registered: 01-24-2008
Hatred for DD's sperm donor...Advice???
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 11:11pm
I absolutely despise my daughters father! I know its awful and terrible to say, but i got to be truthful! I know the only ones to even slightly understand what im feeling is my friends on here...The story is that i met dd's father and i had just turned 21 and was still running wild and made the uhoh of not getting to know him before letting myself fall into his player trap. In other words i found out i was pregnant with my daughter only 2 weeks after meeting him!! Seems unreal that im on this board with how easy and quick i got pregnant with her and the other baby that i miscarried a year before this. Well so me and him agreed we didnt know one another well enough yet to be in a relationship, but to stay friends of course and he wanted to be a daddy no matter what. So i had my daughter and he was there for like the first year, not a perfect dad but i would say he did try! We never did a dna cuz i knew for sure it was his and he believe me till,
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Registered: 03-07-2008
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 6:06am

I'm a graduate of this board and check in from time to time, the title of your post caught my attention.

I can really relate to where your coming from, my ex and I were not together very long and my DS was a pleasant surprise.

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Registered: 07-08-2004
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 8:11am

I can relate....my DD's father is my ex husband....we were married 4 years and he was not faithful to me for one month of it.