is hubby changing his mind?

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Registered: 02-08-2010
is hubby changing his mind?
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Tue, 03-30-2010 - 6:26pm

i am so angry and hurt!!!!! when we first got together, hubby had been thru two divorces with his kids "taken away". at that point he said he wanted no more kids-- he is 47 (now) and i am 32. in the last couple of years (2006 or so) he decided otherwise-- that he wanted one more kid, that he could be around full time for. and he knows how important it is to me since i have no children.


he has been acting very strange the last couple of months (almost since we started really doing something about it). getting mad at me for stupid things, not even wanting to be intimate-- we barely even kiss anymore! i am wondering if he has changed his mind about having a kid. but of course i ask and he won't tell me!!!!!!


what do you guys think!!!!??????


andrea

 

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Registered: 04-07-2009
Tue, 03-30-2010 - 9:59pm

I'm not sure that I can answer any question of sorts, but I just wanted to let you know that you're in my prayers.


I hope he'll open up to you soon!

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Registered: 09-06-2008
Tue, 03-30-2010 - 11:39pm
Maybe he hasn't changed his mind, but is just nervous? I'm sending you positive thoughts.
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Registered: 02-08-2010
Wed, 03-31-2010 - 9:49am
thanks guys.

 

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Registered: 07-15-2008
Thu, 04-01-2010 - 11:18am
My dh played the wishy-washy game with me for a long time. It was go one min and telling me how it wasn't really ok right then, was just for me. I think that men have a very hard time adjusting to ttc if they have ever thought about not having anymore children or waiting til the perfect time in their heads. I believe by us wanting it so bad it sometimes puts them in a
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