I got a BFN and don't want it ! ) :

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Registered: 05-05-2003
I got a BFN and don't want it ! ) :
Wed, 05-21-2003 - 12:27pm
Hey guys. AF should have arrived yesterday but she didn't so I tested. I got a BFN. I am sooo sad but I am at work right now so unable to just cry like I want to. I just really thought it was my month. I really really did. I don't know what happened. I'm never late, any bit at all, so I just knew it. How do I keep from playing these mind games with myself thinking the test is wrong? Come on AF, just show up now so I can get on with it.

Sorry about the vent.

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Wed, 05-21-2003 - 1:39pm
So sorry about the BFN! (((HUGS))) ~Stephanie
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Registered: 05-03-2003
Wed, 05-21-2003 - 7:25pm
Hey Melissa,

Girl, go ahead and vent all you want. That's what we're here for. I got one too the other day, actually 2 of them, I just did not tell anybody about the 2nd one. I thought my body was playing tricks on me. Well, it did, and I still ended up with a BFN. I kinda knew it would be though. But , DH & I are officially TTC#1 this month. I'm doing the charting, the temping, OPKs, Robitussin, Pre nat vit., V8 Splash, - you name it. Even bought DH some vitamins. So, we'll see if any of it works. Even bought a new battery for the BBT. Just bought the bloomin' thing last week and battery light flashed yesterday . I was so ill. I know exactly how you feel, but try to put a smile on and know that there is next cycle. Keep your chin up!!!

(((((((Big Hugs)))))))) to you !!!!!

Maybe this will be all of our chances for BFP's next cycle!!!!

GL to everyone!!!!

~Lisa O~ 36 DH 36 Officially TTC#1 C1 CD7

Here's my 1st FF Chart ever. Can't tell much yet, I know.


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Registered: 05-15-2003
Thu, 05-22-2003 - 12:09am

I am SO SORRY!!! I know how awful it can be. I thought since it was so easy to get pregnant with my first one this one would be a piece of cake. Not true. Just hang in there and keep trying we are all right here with you! My hugs and prayers are with you and your DH.

Get a good cry in and hang in there!



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Registered: 03-31-2003
Thu, 05-22-2003 - 10:37am
Sorry about the BFN (((((HUGS))))

Of course, you know, it's not over until the fat lady (AF) sings (shows up). Hang in there. (((((HUGS)))))))))))