I know it's not their fault, but...

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Registered: 06-11-2009
I know it's not their fault, but...
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Sun, 06-14-2009 - 4:05pm

So, yesterday we went to a family reunion for my Dh side of the family- which is fine.

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Registered: 02-20-2009
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 4:11pm

(((hugs))) it can be hard to have everyone asking you all the time and not knowing how hard of a journey it is for you...no other advice really, maybe change the subject?


I guess you could always go with:

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Registered: 03-11-2008
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 7:19pm
My mom

Rebecca-29 DH -31 DS -12 DD-2

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/22f7ac

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Registered: 07-17-2007
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 8:34pm

Those are insensitive remarks, even if "half-joking".

Pregnancy%20ticker
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Registered: 06-11-2009
Mon, 06-15-2009 - 9:33am
For the ones who know your journey that is really insensitive.
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Registered: 05-04-2008
Mon, 06-15-2009 - 12:31pm
I completely understand how you feel, my family did the same thing, but they all knew that we were trying and having difficulties. DH finally ended up telling both my family and his family that we understand they were excited for us to get pg but that we were having problems and we needed them to quit asking all the time becuase it was only adding more stress/ heatache to us.
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