I really don't get some people

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Registered: 05-04-2008
I really don't get some people
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Thu, 02-12-2009 - 3:57pm

Ok so I really have to just vent here and get this off my chest because I am so upset about it!!! My best friend told me a few weeks ago that her younger sister (around 21) just found out that she was pg, on accident, and my friend had the nerve to tell me...see sometimes accidents do just happen!!! So I was just getting over being slightly upset that here is this girl who didn't even want a kid got pg on accident when DH and I have been trying for 2 1/2 years of nothing when my friend calls me last night and says that her sister is not going to keep the baby that she is just not ready for one yet and is to young and has a lot she wants to do before she has kids. UM HELLO!!!! Maybe she should have thought about that before she went and had unprotected sex!!!! How in the world is it fair that this girl is able to get pg one night while she was drunk but yet people like DH and I have been ttc for 2 1/2 years and nothing!!!!


Sorry ladies I just had to get this off my chest

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  • Cycles 1-23 all BFN's
  • Cycle 24 started fertility work up; BFN
  • 8/12/08 HSG ordered told to lose weight discuss clomid/iui in 3-6 months.
  • Cycle 25 BFN
  • Cycle 26 BFN
  • 7/29 HSG showed that right tube is completley blocked, left tube has adhesions on it, Will have tubes recanalized.

  • Lost enough weight to fit into jeans that were to small last fall!!!


  • Cycle 27- met new OB-GYN 11/12- will have tubal canalization next cycle then try naturally for 3 cycles before moving on to fertility drugs if needed.


  • Cycle 27 BFN


  • Cycle 28 Recanalization cleared both tubes-BFN


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  • Cycle 30-OBGYN appt 2/25 will discuss fertility meds

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Registered: 12-09-2008
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 4:05pm

I am soo soo sorry.


I can't believe the nerve of that friend after she knows you have been trying and trying and then her sister just "accidently" gets PG and has the nerve to tell you that she's not keeping the baby. OMG

People like that just piss me off. My opinion I'm totally against abortions and now that me and my husband have been TTC and running across problems and there are all these girls out there having unprotected sex and having opps and then flaunting it all over. That just makes me so mad.


I just dont understand these girls who have no problem getting pregnant and aren't trying and then all of us who are trying and can't get pregnant. What is wrong with this world!!!


I am so sorry I wish you and your husband the best of luck and hope you get a BFP SOON!

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Lilypie 

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Thu, 02-12-2009 - 10:50pm
Oh Honey I am so with you! I'm not dealing with

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Registered: 05-04-2008
Fri, 02-13-2009 - 1:28am
Thank you for your support!! I know I don't agree with abortion either, in any circumstance, and after going through this ttc struggle it just concretes my beliefes even more.
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Registered: 05-04-2008
Fri, 02-13-2009 - 1:34am
Thank you so much for your support also!!! I feel the same way that you do a lot of the time!!! I have felt the urges to yell at preggo ladies but nevet to punch one....yet..... I do get the jealousy pains all the time though, one of the therapists that I work with is about 4 months pg and flaunts it all the time, makes me want to ask her if she knows how lucky she is...but then again you never know what every persons story is....Regardless I send you tons of P & PT and a ton of Baby dust!!!
Meez 3D avatar avatars games

  • Cycles 1-23 all BFN's
  • Cycle 24 started fertility work up; BFN
  • 8/12/08 HSG ordered told to lose weight discuss clomid/iui in 3-6 months.
  • Cycle 25 BFN
  • Cycle 26 BFN
  • 7/29 HSG showed that right tube is completley blocked, left tube has adhesions on it, Will have tubes recanalized.

  • Lost enough weight to fit into jeans that were to small last fall!!!


  • Cycle 27- met new OB-GYN 11/12- will have tubal canalization next cycle then try naturally for 3 cycles before moving on to fertility drugs if needed.


  • Cycle 27 BFN


  • Cycle 28 Recanalization cleared both tubes-BFN


  • Cycle 29-BFN


  • Cycle 30-OBGYN appt 2/25 will discuss fertility meds

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Registered: 02-23-2008
Fri, 02-13-2009 - 10:32pm

Oh. I am so sorry.

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Registered: 05-04-2008
Sun, 02-15-2009 - 9:01pm
I know that most people don't realize that what they are saying hurts people like us who have been ttc but you would think that when they know you have been trying that they would treat that as a sensitive topic!!! I hope that you get your BFP soon!!
Meez 3D avatar avatars games

  • Cycles 1-23 all BFN's
  • Cycle 24 started fertility work up; BFN
  • 8/12/08 HSG ordered told to lose weight discuss clomid/iui in 3-6 months.
  • Cycle 25 BFN
  • Cycle 26 BFN
  • 7/29 HSG showed that right tube is completley blocked, left tube has adhesions on it, Will have tubes recanalized.

  • Lost enough weight to fit into jeans that were to small last fall!!!


  • Cycle 27- met new OB-GYN 11/12- will have tubal canalization next cycle then try naturally for 3 cycles before moving on to fertility drugs if needed.


  • Cycle 27 BFN


  • Cycle 28 Recanalization cleared both tubes-BFN


  • Cycle 29-BFN


  • Cycle 30-OBGYN appt 2/25 will discuss fertility meds

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Registered: 02-23-2008
Sun, 02-15-2009 - 9:28pm

Yes, you would think they would!!


Thanks and I hope you get yours, too.

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Registered: 05-04-2008
Sun, 02-15-2009 - 10:30pm

Yes I am going in to discuss fertility drugs this time...according to my OB-GYN since my tubes have been cleared there is no reason why I shouldn't be pg...well that was almost 3 cycles ago so she told me if I am not pg by then that we would discuss drugs so I hope that soon it will happen!!!

GL to you!!! I hope you get your BFP this cycle!

Meez 3D avatar avatars games

  • Cycles 1-23 all BFN's
  • Cycle 24 started fertility work up; BFN
  • 8/12/08 HSG ordered told to lose weight discuss clomid/iui in 3-6 months.
  • Cycle 25 BFN
  • Cycle 26 BFN
  • 7/29 HSG showed that right tube is completley blocked, left tube has adhesions on it, Will have tubes recanalized.

  • Lost enough weight to fit into jeans that were to small last fall!!!


  • Cycle 27- met new OB-GYN 11/12- will have tubal canalization next cycle then try naturally for 3 cycles before moving on to fertility drugs if needed.


  • Cycle 27 BFN


  • Cycle 28 Recanalization cleared both tubes-BFN


  • Cycle 29-BFN


  • Cycle 30-OBGYN appt 2/25 will discuss fertility meds

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Mon, 02-16-2009 - 12:49pm

Hi Ladies,


I had to stop in this post and comment on the jealousy thing....Oh god...it just drives me nuts!

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Registered: 05-04-2008
Mon, 02-16-2009 - 2:36pm

Yes I think it is normal for all of us to be jealous....everyone gets that way when from time to time when someone has something that you want really really bad!!!! I hope that you get your bfp soon!

Meez 3D avatar avatars games

  • Cycles 1-23 all BFN's
  • Cycle 24 started fertility work up; BFN
  • 8/12/08 HSG ordered told to lose weight discuss clomid/iui in 3-6 months.
  • Cycle 25 BFN
  • Cycle 26 BFN
  • 7/29 HSG showed that right tube is completley blocked, left tube has adhesions on it, Will have tubes recanalized.

  • Lost enough weight to fit into jeans that were to small last fall!!!


  • Cycle 27- met new OB-GYN 11/12- will have tubal canalization next cycle then try naturally for 3 cycles before moving on to fertility drugs if needed.


  • Cycle 27 BFN


  • Cycle 28 Recanalization cleared both tubes-BFN


  • Cycle 29-BFN


  • Cycle 30-OBGYN appt 2/25 will discuss fertility meds

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