I'm so sad

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I'm so sad
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Thu, 05-08-2003 - 2:02pm
I can't stop crying ....... I feel terrible ....I was really wishing this was it, but I guess no hope at all. I'm not trying next cycle but I should be getting a HSG test.

I feel so bad I have no idea how I'm going to make it throw the rest of the day.

I really need lots of hugs today

Imani

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Thu, 05-08-2003 - 2:16pm
Oh Imani, I'm sooooo sorry. I was so hoping this was it for you. Oh Sweetie, take some time for yourself. Go to the bathroom and cry it out or walk around outside for a few minutes and take a break. I'm so sorry.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGE HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

LOLove,

Shannon

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Thu, 05-08-2003 - 2:18pm
(((((((((((Imani))))))))))))))

So sorry,

I know how it is when you as sooooo sure. This month I had a pg looking chart, temps didnt drop until a day after AF. I was devistated for a couple of days then I started to look ahead, instead of back. I hope you can take it easy, and try to take some time for you. I know it is hard to be alone for a bit, but then it is nice to have that pampering time. I know there isnt much that can be said to make you feel better so I will just tons of ((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))) you way:)

~anna



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Thu, 05-08-2003 - 2:23pm
Imani,

I am so sad. I really really thought this was it for you. I am so so sorry and I wish I could make it better.

I am sending you tons and tons of hugs.

((((((hugs)))))))

Jenny

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Thu, 05-08-2003 - 3:12pm
Oh Imani - I am so sorry. I was really hoping this was it for you. I know there's not much I can say that will make it any better, so I'll just send big (((hugs))).

Take it easy today,

Joan

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Thu, 05-08-2003 - 3:22pm
(((((((Imani)))))))) I am so sorry to read your news. I am thinking of you and hoping you can take some time to take it easy today. Oh, Imani, I am so sorry. I want you to get your bfp. Please take care and know that your friends here are thinking of you and sending huge hugs to you.



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Thu, 05-08-2003 - 3:22pm
Imani- I'm so sorry Babe ((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))) Go home early- work can wait-you need some time to regroup. I so thought you were going to get it Hon, I really did...I'm so sad. We're here for you Sweetie- we love you! (((((((((HUGS)))))))))) You're going to get that bfp- hang in there. Love, Connie
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Thu, 05-08-2003 - 3:23pm
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Oh, Imani~ I'm so sorry sweetie. All the hugs in the world to you.

Tara

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Thu, 05-08-2003 - 3:25pm
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Thu, 05-08-2003 - 3:30pm
Oh Imani, I am so sad for you. (((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))

I was really hoping this was it. You have really been through a lot.

You have provided everyone with a great deal of support and encouragement an it means so much. You need to take care of yourself right now. I totally have felt your dissapointment and I know how sad this can be. Oh...i feel so bad for you I just wish I could give you a big hug.

I don't know if it makes you feel better but I have also decided to take a break for a few months. DH and I decided that this would be it for a while. The clomid hasn't made me o yet (I'm at cd 17) and it just sucks. This will be it for a few months because it has just become too much. I'm just telling you this so you know you are not alone in feeling like you need to take a break. I had no idea ttc would be so hard and so emotional. since we have come to this decision a few days ago it seems to get a little easier because the pressure is off. Give yourself a beak and relak-- and have some drinks! I'm just kidding-- just enjoy not having to focus so much energy on one thing for a while-- as hard as that sounds.

You hang in there and take care. I am so sorry that this wasn't the month, but it WILL happen at the right time for you in the future. Have faith.

HUGs and more HUGS coming at you,>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Steph

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Thu, 05-08-2003 - 4:09pm
Imani, I am so sorry. I was really hoping this was it for you too.

Lots of hugs,

Rita

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