I'm so upset!

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Registered: 03-16-2007
I'm so upset!
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Wed, 03-18-2009 - 6:23pm

What a horrible month :( I don't even know how to find the hope to be preggo this month. 2 weeks ago Social Services came to my house after someone filed a report that we party all the time, do meth, and leave our kids alone to go to the bar!!! The really devastating part is that I am 99% sure it was my SIL, out of spite. She is DH sister... and her kids' Dad is DH's close friend. They are not together and he is living with us after a really strange break up... followed by her running away to Vegas to marry some guy she only knew for a few months.


her and DH's friend have 3 kids together. She had kept the kids from him for over a month- trying to show off to her new hubby. That wore off and she needed a babysitter so they could go out. She called him to take the kids for the night with like a 2 hour notice. He had to work and couldn't take them. She accused him of wanting to party with us and not caring about his kids. We don't even party!

 

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Wed, 03-18-2009 - 8:52pm
Sorry you are going through this.
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Thu, 03-19-2009 - 7:40am
ur SIL is horrible...i can not believe she is putting ur famiyl through this...would she really want her niece/nephew to be taken away from their loving parents...thats crazy!!!! I hope everything works out for you...she'll get hers its about karma...you dont deserve this..tons of hugs sent ur way.
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Thu, 03-19-2009 - 10:51am

OMG! that is ridiculous! I am so incredibly sorry you are going through this. So many times, I find myself saying, "no good deed goes unpunished".

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Fri, 03-20-2009 - 4:50pm
Thanks girls, for all of your support! I had at least

 

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Registered: 03-10-2005
Fri, 03-20-2009 - 8:36pm
I'm so glad things are looking a little better.
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Mon, 03-23-2009 - 12:36pm

OMG I am so sorry to hear that you had such a nightmare expierence and I hope that it works out for you soon and that the DHS see's the good side and realizes that it was a false claim.


GL and Baby dust to you!

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    Wed, 03-25-2009 - 1:54pm
    I'm so glad things are looking better. Hang in there, girl!
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    Fri, 04-03-2009 - 3:22pm

    OMG Shawna, that's terrible.


    All I can say is try to rise above all this.


    Once you've been for a few weeks and the UA proves clean they'll soon get fed up.


    I would tell them that due to your kidney problems and UTI's you struggle and ask if you can sit on the seat on paper towels.


    Be strong, this will blow over, and if SIL tries it again, the

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    Fri, 04-03-2009 - 9:00pm

    Thanks Julie for your support!


    I just finally heard back from my caseworker yesterday. I had to bug her supervisor to get a call back. She just wants us to finish up our UA's through Sunday and she is filing it and closing it as unfounded. YAY! It was just so scary. DH is crazy and we are just going to