So, DH and I have been TTC #1
A few months ago someone else posted how glad they were to find IV because the bump was so awful w/rude people.
That is SO great to hear.
I really don't know anything about TheBump, but I was on IV when TTC 5 years ago, through 2 m/c's and then all the way through my pregnancy (ds is almost 4). I have just recently started TTC #2 so I just got back. I was welcomed with open arms into the Olympic BDers buddy group since my old buddy group isn't around anymore. They are just as wonderful and supportive as the group I had before.
Of course every now and then people will say something not so wonderful, but you just have to ignore those posts. I've been on here a lot, and I very rarely see people get ugly.
So...come on in and join the fun! We're glad you are here.
I've been here just a couple weeks and have yet to see one rude response. Everyone is really supportive here and I have already found out a ton of information. Everyone is really helpful. I've had a few stupid questions myself and no one gave me a rude response.
Ivillage is awesome! You don't have to worry about asking stupid questions here. Everybody is super duper nice and nobody is (for lack of a better word) a butthole. :) Welcome and hope your stay here is short and sweet!