Jealous

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Sat, 06-19-2010 - 8:42pm

I can't help it, for some reason I am

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In reply to: dannielle07
Sat, 06-19-2010 - 11:56pm
i hear you. i just found out my ex boyfriend and his wife are expecting baby #2 and i got pretty upset becuase i want a baby too and they get to experience it all now whereas i'm not.
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In reply to: dannielle07
Sun, 06-20-2010 - 8:28am

I want to be happy for them but every post now is about babies, babies names, or baby stuff. It is exhausting.
I am sure it will happen for both of us, I guess we just have to be patient but I want it NOW. lol.


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In reply to: dannielle07
Mon, 06-21-2010 - 10:51am
Don't be too hard on yourself.
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In reply to: dannielle07
Mon, 07-19-2010 - 10:08am

I know exactly how you're feeling. It's been 2 years of TTC #1 for me and I've seen basically every one of my friends (seriously), co-workers, family and more get pregnant, have their kid and some are even going for a 2nd round! It is so hard to be happy for others when you aren't able to have the same along with them.

I don't have any magical words for you, other than I know what you're going through and it isn't always easy.




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Registered: 07-15-2006
In reply to: dannielle07
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 11:23am

Yep, I am right there with you guys. Almost everyone in my playgroup has a 2nd or is well into their pg. Most are younger than me, but even the one older (41) had her 2nd, the first month they tried. Oh and none of them need medical assistance or have had any m/c this time around. Whereas, it took me 10ttc natural cycles, 2 rounds of clomid and now this pg seems to be going away (admittedly, I'm glad it's early-if it has to happen early is far better for me). I think the pity-party is normal at some stage-it is so hard to go through this process!

Hang in there, everyone! Baby dust !

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