Just Frustrated!!!

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Registered: 11-05-2004
Just Frustrated!!!
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Fri, 02-26-2010 - 10:18am

Why does it seem like EVERYONE of my friends/family/people that I talk to are ALLLLLLLL getting pregnant right now?!?! This am a pretty close friend sent me a pic of her def BFP!!! To top it off, she has an IUD in place and her husband is deployed. So they managed to get it done with an IUD and only a 2 week time frame while he was home on R&R!!! This is just the one that iced the cake for me, there are tons and tons of happy accident pregnancies all around me. I just want to crawl in a hole and cry, or give up!! We all try so hard and it takes a crazy amount of time and sometimes doesn't happen at all and it seems like its just so easy for everyone around us. I'm even more upset hearing her story because she has the same IUD that I did. The same IUD that completely messed me up (and I HATE with a passion for it) to where its making it so hard for me while it just failed for her and now she gets another precious blessing because of that IUD!! ERRR.

I'm not giving up, I just feel like it sometimes. I am happy for all of them, just sad for all of us here, we try so hard and have to keep seeing BFNs. I know in the long run though, it will ALL be so worth it!!! :)



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Registered: 11-13-2009
Fri, 02-26-2010 - 7:08pm

Sarah---


Big hugs to you.

 

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Registered: 07-04-2003
Sat, 02-27-2010 - 9:22am
I'm sorry you're having a rough time right now. I truly know exactly how you feel as those have been my exact words for some time too. I think all (but maybe 1) of my friends have gotten pregnant and just recently had kids, many co-workers too and cousins...all during the time DH and I have been trying to get pregnant. And we still aren't pregnant!!
Hang in there, I know how frustrating and upsetting it is being happy for them, but sad for yourself.



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