Just Needing Support

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Registered: 06-18-2009
Just Needing Support
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Thu, 06-18-2009 - 8:52pm
I know Im new and that I havent exactly established connections here yet but I just really need some support. My husband and I just began TTC # 3 in May of this year, we have (obvisouly) two children our dd is 4 our ds is 18mts. It took us 18mts to get Jax after Shannon was born and I know that its likely it could take some time for us to be successful with # 3. Im anemic and I have PCOS. My OB/GYN told me that PCOS usually hinders a womans ability to become pregnant, which is probably why it took over a year to get Jax. I know its normal to feel discouraged when you've ben trying awhile but its been a month and I feel let down and I havent even tested yet. I guess its just that Brad (dh) has really been wating a third baby and so the pressure is on to produce one. I guess what I am asking is for some prayers that DH will stop being a pain in the butt and that maybe it will be a quicker success this time
Nikki Mommy of 2 TTC # 3

Lilypie Lilypie Lilypie

Nikki Mommy of 2 TTC # 3 Lilypie Lilypie

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Thu, 06-18-2009 - 9:13pm

Hey Nikki,


I am here too trying for # 3. We havnt been trying too long either (m/c in april, so only 2 months since) but I can sure tell you I agree it is discouraging, and frustrating. My dh is the opposite, I'm sure he hopes it takes a few months because "trying" is so fun haha. And I'm like a crazy person, obsessed with getting pregnant again.

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Registered: 06-18-2009
Thu, 06-18-2009 - 9:40pm
Aww Tammy. I am so sorry about your miscarriage, its hard I know. I had one loss at 8wks back in 2004 right before I got pregnant with Shannon. I am here for support day or night. Its so hard to keep positivie thinking in place when the outside world has got you down. I too am obsessed with TTC # 3 and being pregnant again but my best advice to you is dont rush it. Your body needs time to heal. Im here if you need me
Nikki Mommy of 2 TTC # 3 Lilypie Lilypie Lilypie

Nikki Mommy of 2 TTC # 3 Lilypie Lilypie