Looks like I will be coming back, just don't know when....

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Registered: 08-08-2011
Looks like I will be coming back, just don't know when....
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Sat, 08-18-2012 - 12:18pm
I had my 8 weeks ultrasound. No heartbeat.. I suppose I will be back here soon just don't know when .. I feel so lost and alone.. After such a long time, I just don't know why!! ;( ;(

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Registered: 11-19-2011

I am so so sorry :smileysad:  Is it possible they have your dates wrong??  I had a m/c in May, and I know how awful it feels.  Sending lots of (((((HUGS))))) your way.

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Well I went in 2 weeks ago, heard a heartbeat at 6 weeks 2 days.. Came back 2 weeks later, measures 7 weeks.. Should be 8 weeks 1 day and no heartbeat :smileysad: I have been praying like mad it's a mistake but I know it's not.. Thanks...
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Registered: 10-20-2008
Oh no! I'm so, so sorry. My heart is breaking for you. I unfortunately know the feeling all too well and it really sucks. I know its hard to see the silver lining right now, but the Femara worked right away for you, hopefully it will work again and you will get your sticky bean.

When you do start trying again you should check out TTC after Miscarriage board. The women there are very understanding and were a huge help to me after my losses. Hang in there mama :smileysad:

Shawn 
Mom to DS, July 2009
Expecting our little girl after three m/c - EDD 11/29/12

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Thank you.. I'm not sure yet. I go in tomorrow.. The ultrasound tech said I had a retroverted uterus, which I didn't have two weeks ago so I am not sure how that happens all of the sudden.. I am praying that maybe since it was retroverted she couldn't measure it properly or hear the heartbeat (I am stretching, I know) .. I guess I'll wait until tomorrow.. What's weird is, no cramping or bleeding.. No signs or symptoms at all... :/
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((((Hugs)))) I can't express how sorry I am. Are they going to check again to make sure? Usually if something like that happens they say that there was most likely some sort of problem with the baby that they wouldn't have survived anyway. Even knowing that, it never makes it any easier. Especially when you heard the HB at 6 weeks. You're not alone right now and we're all here to help support you in any way that we can! I agree that you might find good support in the TTC after a loss group. They all know exactly what you're dealing with and it's something no one ever wants to experience. I'm sending lots and lots of PT&P's your way. Please remember that we're here for you and to try to help you with what you're going through!

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We just came back from the dr. No heartbeat.. Doing two hcg levels, If they go down, d&c next week.. I appreciate it.. It's the hardest thing I have ever had to do..
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I'm so sorry to hear this mr. moore. I just wanted to share something with you. When I was pregnant with my first, my doctor ordered an ultrasound right away because of severe cramping. There was no baby.....nothing. He measured hcg levels to make sure they where going down. When he did that, they where in fact going up. Don't give up hope. Even if it is a m/c. I hope you keep trying hun!
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Oh thank you!!! I truly hope this is he case!! I had my numbers drawn yesterday and go back to have them drawn tomorrow! And go back Thursday! I am preparing myself however because the level from yesterday is already low :smileysad: but I appreciate the positivity!! :smileyhappy:
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Thanks! Unfortunately I get to start all over again.. I have my D&C Wednesday and have to wait at least a cycle before I can start my medications.. Such a disappointment
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Registered: 11-11-2008

Oh no, Mrsmoore, I am SO very sorry to see this.  I have been on vacation so didn't get on the boards until today.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and DH.  I know what a long struggle it has been for you, and I know it is terrible to hear such news.  My sister went through 2 m/c before she had her DD.  So I struggled with her through both of them and I can tell you I felt so helpless in trying to help her b/c I know that it can't be helped.  Just want you to know that we are all here for you in any way that we can be!  I will be thinking of you this week especially!!!

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