My best friend just found out she's pregnant :-/

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Registered: 06-03-2009
My best friend just found out she's pregnant :-/
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Mon, 04-16-2012 - 11:24am

My best friend just found out she is pregnant and was not even trying to conceive.

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Registered: 11-13-2008
No, you can't help your feelings, and I think it helps when you can be honest about it. It's perfectly okay to be both happy for her and sad for yourself. At least she realized that it would be hard for you to hear. I think a lot of the gals on hear can relate to how you are feeling. (((HUGS)))

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I know how you feel! 4 people at work just found out they are pregnant and I pretty much was a bawling mess when I found out. The one girl said she felt bad cause she wasn't trying..and I had to help her figure out when she concieved to make sure her boyfriend is the father. One of them is having twins so I'm surrounded everyday by pregnant people and we've been trying a year and I want nothing more than to make my son a big brother.

 

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Thank you for your responses... I feel better today...Melissa, you explained exactly how I feel... I'm happy for her and sad for myself.. I know that everything will be okay and when it's my turn, it will happen for me... Bero, it must be tough working and being surrounded by all these pregnant people when you have been TTC for a while!!! I hope that everything works out and I will send baby dust your way!!!!
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Registered: 03-03-2012

Hi! I totally relate to how you feel. My bff found out she was pregnant after we had been ttc for about 5 months as well. It only took her one try, and this was her second child. She had the baby last month. It's okay that you feel sad and probably a little frustrated. Just know that there are poeple out there who have gone through this as well, and you're not alone! hugs!

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Registered: 06-03-2009

Thank you!