SA results: NO SPERM in semen
Find a Conversation
|Sat, 05-22-2010 - 9:46am|
We just got our SA results back today and apparently, DH produces NO SPERM....there is nothing we can do.
We're still confused and this all feels 'unreal', but I am so proud of myself for not listening to all those people saying I was too stressed out and that we should just relax and wait and it will happen, and for starting the fertility checkups after 5 months of TTC.
I would have never thought DH has a problem. He's the most health-conscious person ever.
We've never had a problem with adoption, and wanted to adopt anyway, so we will try adoption. But DH really wants me to be pregnant and experience all that, so he suggested we find someone we know who would be willing to 'father' our baby.
We already have a couple of 'candidates'. Now we just have to ask them how they feel about it.
I know this all sounds crazy, but I'm happy we found out what the problem was, and that we already found a solution.
What do you girls think about this? I'm really confused.
This means DH will never have a child of his own. He'S feeling ok, he really doesn't mind someone else being the biological father.
Well, lots of baby dust to you. I guess I could say I'm on hold until we find someone.