UGH. One of those days.
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|Sun, 09-05-2010 - 1:49am|
DH's ex-step-cousin is on our facebook page. I've never met her and DH hasn't seen her since he was about 5. She's in her mid 20s and just got married about 3 months ago. She decided last week (despite her husband not wanting to...yes...this is all according to status updates on FB...the crap people share on there is ridiculous!) that she wanted to have a baby. She and her DH are both weeellll over 300lbs and both have type 2 diabetes. She is unemployed and he makes minimum wage. They live in her mom's house and have nothing...furniture, a bed, nothing... Seriously, is this the best time for you to have children?!?! Maybe you could try to get your life together! So she goes to her doctor on Friday and he prescribes her 100mg Clomid without any b/w or trying first! Ummm...I'm on cycle 33 naturally and still trying to convince my RE to give me something (although I think we finally got her blessing...along with our team of docs, but that's a different story...). What the *#?@! Are you kidding me? I'm not saying poor or overweight people should not try. But they make NO attempt to be healthy or to move forward with their lives. I've had my share of weight problems and I work my butt off to be as healthy as I can be so I can be the healthiest pregnant lady ever. And um...maybe this moron of a doctor could try to make her get her diabetes under control?! Her stupid FB is all about going to Taco Bell and loving on Micky D's milkshakes. Seriously, I just wanted to jump through the stupid computer and slap this girl.
Needless to say, I deleted this cousin as well as her siblings, DH, parents, and anyone that might talk to her. Man, I sure hope I get pregnant before she does!
I'm so sick of people thinking that TTC/having children is a damn game. I also think that people need to remember that not everyone can get knocked up by having sex once and have a little sensitivity because you never know who may be hurt by your words.
Thanks for letting me vent, ladies. I know we all have stupid people like this in our lives. I say...screw 'em! :)
Let this be our month, gals!
TTC Baby #3 - Cycle #11
Forever missing our little girls
Avery (06.23.09 - 06.27.09)
Cameryn (06.23.09 - 06.24.09)
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03.2007: TTC #1
06.2007: DH's SA is great; my b/w and exam look great
01.30.2009: BFP after 22 months TTC!
02.23.2009: IDENTICAL TWINS!!!
04.22.2009: They are girls! Avery Lauren ("baby A") and Cameryn Grace ("baby B")
06.23.2009: Didn't feel well, went to ER, Dx with TTTS, water broke 8 hours later, in 35 minutes went from 3cm to 9.5cm. Delivered by emergency c-section at 24w5d:
Avery 1lb .2oz at 11:37pm
Cameryn 8.8oz at 11:38pm
06.24.2009: Took Cameryn off life support from collapsed lungs, held her until she died at 10:30am
06.27.2009: Took Avery off life support from stage 4 hemorrhaging on the brain, no renal function, severe lung infection, dx of "brain dead," held her until she died at 11:00am
09.23.2009: ttc #3, asking our girls to bless us with a brother or sister when they are ready