vent!!! need some encouragement
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|Fri, 01-09-2009 - 10:23pm|
Last night was the last night of me fertile window and my husband wanted a "rain check" on the BD. It's been a stressful week at work for both of us so we've only tried about half as many times this week as would be ideal. But seriously, when he said that I wanted to scream!!!! I'm thinking- um, yeah, doesn't quite work that way... I know it's only because he's clueless but he's asked not to know the details of why and CM and charting and all the rest of it, just the timing. He thinks we just go off BCP and it'll magically happen.
We're only ttc right now because he has been really pushing it (I wanted to wait six months because of uncertainty at work). I want this to be a super big deal to him like it is to me and it's just not. Am I wrong to be upset? How can I handle this without having an argument? I have just been avoiding him.