Why is this so hard?

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Registered: 03-06-2007
Why is this so hard?
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Mon, 07-20-2009 - 3:36pm
Dh and I decided about 6 months ago to go ahead and have baby number 3 and be done with having out children.
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Registered: 05-04-2003
Mon, 07-20-2009 - 11:38pm

Nothing can prepare you for the rollercoaster of emotion of having a miscarriage. And you have a funeral to top it off, of a loved one.


Allow yourself some time to greive the losses, scream, rant, cry, do whatever you need to do to get it out!!!


Everyone kept trying to console me when we lost our baby 4 weeks ago and I finally just told them - I KNOW IT WILL BE OKAY - but it is not okay TODAY so just let me cry. Let me be sad.


And I was sad, weepy, and needy for a few days but I pulled out of it. And I felt better having let it all out in the way that worked for me.


We're here for you!!! Many ladies here have dealt with a loss, and the waiting - the endless waiting that drives you insane!!!


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Registered: 03-06-2007
Tue, 07-21-2009 - 5:19pm

Thanks today is a little better day I am at the point now where DH and I are ready to try again as soon as the wait is over.

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