Hello Ladies just wanting some advice.....(long)
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|Sat, 10-22-2011 - 11:14pm|
Hello ladies. I just wanted to get some advice from you all. My DF is apparently going through a CRAZY baby fever......Again............
We have the most amazing three and a half month old little boy. =] He is the highlight of everyday. But the other night DF sat down and talked with me about how he would like to start trying for another baby, soon. He has some good point but I don't think he is thinking that we just had a baby almost four months ago LOL
His mother and father(both have had several marriages) have all of their children very spaced out. His mothers children are 25(df), 20, 8, and 13 months, and his fathers children are 25(df), 20, 7, and 5. So he hates the idea of having a large age gap between children.
He also has Cerebral palsy. Which in his case effects his legs. Within the next few years he will probably be in a wheel chair full time. This is another one of his reasons for wanting to try so soon. He wants to be able to help me when the kids are infants and toddlers and he can not fully do that in a wheel chair, even with our house already being custom built for when he is.
His final reason being that when we tried to get pregnant with Carsyn it took us a year. So he is scared that it will take forever to get pregnant this time as well.
I was just looking for some advice from other mom's on when they decided to start trying for their second child, or advice from ladies with children very closely spaced.