Just getting started....again
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|Mon, 07-30-2012 - 6:43pm|
Hello all! I'm back to the TTC boards! Yeah! I'm just getting past an early miscarriage/D&C - and have had my first AF, finally - it was the longest cycle I've had it a long time. But here we go!
I've been a bit surprised by my mixed feeling about TTC again. I'm 38 SAHM, have two great kids DS4 and DDalmost6. DH and I have been talking on and off for about 2 years now if we want to go for #3. Until recently, we've said we're so happy about our current 'dynamic', the kids play well, are now in preschool and K everyday - life is definitely getting easier. But recently I've kept imagining another baby/sibling and it's felt so good! and when we really talked about it - he said he's wanted it for a while, but he thought I was against it! So we decided to try and surprise! it happened pretty fast on our 2nd cycle! But then at the 8 w u/s found out it was a blighted ovum and a missed miscarriage, so I needed and D&C
the two weeks or so after the mc, I kept feeling i didn't want to try again, that our family was all set, and the extra work/finances, etc wasn't what we wanted. But in the last two weeks, I'm feeling more like myself, and my energy up - so I am definitely feeling better. So we're here again. Wish us luck - I won't actually O until mid-August - so we're waiting.
Good luck to all you ladies - I hope everyone gets fast and stickly BFPs!