So confused/ and need HELP!!!!!!!

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Registered: 01-16-2005
So confused/ and need HELP!!!!!!!
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Fri, 09-02-2011 - 1:26pm
Hello,

Ok I spotted for three days during the time my period is to come on then it stop/wasn't heavy had on a pantie shade on/ but nothing like a period/ but it was brown spotting!!! So after that ima say three t four days later only my nipples was getting sore n my color was just getting a little darker!! But then today I go to check my cervix it was middle finger lenth but was hard/ but I had heard women being pregnant with hard cervix or etc..... But I have not had no period for the month of July PLEASE HELP or give OPIOINS!!!!
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Registered: 01-16-2005
Sat, 09-03-2011 - 11:25pm
Worst messages broads ever!!!!!!!
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Registered: 07-21-2006
Sun, 09-04-2011 - 5:49am
Take a hpt. If you are late that is the only way to tell. The things you are describing can happen if pregnant or not. No need to wonder if you are past the time to test.
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Registered: 08-03-2011
Sun, 09-04-2011 - 9:39am
Qtchk is right. Those are also PMS symptoms due to elevated levels of progesterone. Take a test.
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Registered: 03-01-2011
Mon, 09-05-2011 - 12:45am
Worst message boards ever?!? You can't just come here & insult my gals...maybe no one responded because WE DON'T KNOW EITHER!! Maybe you're prego, maybe you're not. If the hpt is negative, see a doctor & ask for bloodwork. You need to be proactive about your own health.
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Registered: 12-14-2009
Mon, 09-05-2011 - 11:00am
I love this message board! It got me through 10 months of TTC with some really hard moments! In any case, when you have a general question, the best place to post is in the very top question section. I'm on here all the time and I love to answer questions from there but honestly, I don't look down at the Newbies-Introduce Yourself section because it's used for just introductions typically.

In any case, you can NOT go by your cervix to determain pregnancy. It is the most unreliable source. It changes at different times in early pregnancy, as does it throughout your pregnancy. The only reliable time to check your cervix is after AF to determain ovulation. Once you ovulate, it can no longer be used as a tool. As far as the spotting goes. It could be a number of things. It could absolutely have been an odd period for the month...It could also mean that you have a cyst or something that needs to be checked...You don't have a period while pregnant but you could be spotting for reasons that need to be checked if you are pregnant. Best advice is to take an HPT with FMU. If it is negative, you need to go to the Dr. and have some tests done. If it is a cyst, you need to do what needs to be done to take care of that, if anything, if you're pregnant, you need to start that prenatal care, and if you're just missing a period because of an annovulatory cycle, at least you know what you're facing. It happens from time to time for reasons unknown. Good Luck but this is definitely not the worst board ever!

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Registered: 01-16-2005
Mon, 09-05-2011 - 8:55pm
Ok I said worst message boards didn't say worst messages boards people/ before you tell me to be proactive about my health you need to tell these other chicks that too/ oh an I see ur a member not a leader u have a blessed day
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Registered: 01-16-2005
Mon, 09-05-2011 - 8:56pm
But to the ones that responded I thank y'all so much
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Registered: 03-01-2011
Tue, 09-06-2011 - 12:20am
Sounds like I hit a nerve...

Nope, I'm not a *leader* so if that makes my words irrelevant then so be it. Trust me -you're not alone.
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