TTC and needs some friends to chat with

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Registered: 05-28-2009
TTC and needs some friends to chat with
Tue, 02-21-2012 - 12:07am

Hi, I'm Shannon (28) married to DH Jeff (31 on Saturday!) and momma to DS Clayton (2.5). We've been TTC since May 2011 when we had a m/c at 10 wks.

We've been trying for so long now, with no bfps and everyone I had to talk about it is now pregnant or given birth. It's a little fustrating. I feel like we are never going to get pregnant, DH and I are thinking about going to the dr. and telling him that I need more answers.

My SIL is due in Aug this year and my bf just had twins in Dec. I wanna join the baby party. I work full time and there are 3 of us currently TTC, and I nervous that I am going to be the last or only one not to get a bfp.

I hope that here I'll be able to find some ladies here to chat with and to keep me

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Registered: 03-08-2011
Tue, 02-21-2012 - 12:06pm
Welcome to the group. It's hard to have been trying so long and not have gotten a BFP. DH and I were NTNP since March 2011 and officially trying since May 2011, like you. We're trying for our first and not having any luck so far. We started on Clomid last cycle and this is our 2nd medicated cycle TTC. I know what you mean about seeing everyone around you getting pg. I think when you are waiting to try or TTC those people seem to be everywhere! Hopefully you find the support here that you need. The women here are full of knowledge. Plus they understand what you're going through. Most of my friends don't understand and keep telling me things that are not at all helpful. I think it helps to be able to talk to everyone here and get things off my chest. FX'd that it will happen for you soon and then you'll have some women to talk to in the expecting groups :)