16DPO and Still a BFN

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Registered: 01-07-2009
16DPO and Still a BFN
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Mon, 04-20-2009 - 12:17am

I have never been a regular cycle. Some months are 28 and some are 36 but never longer then 36. My lutal phase has been from 11-16DPO. Today I tested and got a BFN. AF doesn't seem to be coming no AF cramps or anything. Should I call my doctor and get a blood test or should I just wait a couple more days and test again.


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Mon, 04-20-2009 - 12:40am

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Registered: 01-07-2009
Mon, 04-20-2009 - 6:44am

The last two days was hectic and I forgot to temp. But temped this morning and it was 97.96 which is still high. I am going to test tomorrow morning and if nothing then I will be calling my doctor for a blood test.

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Registered: 05-20-2004
Mon, 04-20-2009 - 7:58am
I'm not convinced you O'd when it says. How sure are you of your fertile CM? Maybe you O'd a couple days later and were a slow riser.




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Mon, 04-20-2009 - 8:30am
By looking at my previous charts I've always O'd between 17-19. Even with my cycles being so irregular thats the only thing that has stayed the same. My pre O temps where in the low 97's and now my post O temp are in the mid 97's to low 98's. So I am very confident about the O date because I can't seen to find any other day that I might have O'd late
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Registered: 02-25-2008
Mon, 04-20-2009 - 10:28am
I had the same thing happen to me last month. I had went from having a normal 28 days to having 35 days and then last month it was a 42 days. So, it might be stress or just something else. Just be patient and DO NOT stress about it. I know you probably would love to get a PFP but if you get your hopes to high up then when it doesn't happen you just come crashing down even further. Trust me I know this because it's exactly what happened last month. I just knew we were pregnant because I had NEVER had a cycle like that and I even went to the doctor and my HCG numbers were low but not high enough to say I was pregnant so I was convinced something was just wrong but that we were pregnant. Then I got AF and I was crushed for days. I even had to attend a baby shower that next day and I cried after it was over and was so upset. It's such a hard thing to deal with. Everyone else around you seems to be getting pregnant but there you sit, ready and able to take care and provide for a child and can't seem to make it happen.
Anyhow, here is some baby dust being thrown your way and I hope you are PG and you get that BFP for sure in the next few days. :)
Good Luck!