5 Days Late and Still No BFP!

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Registered: 03-29-2004
5 Days Late and Still No BFP!
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Tue, 05-05-2009 - 11:13am

I am such a wreck right now waiting for something definitive. I was supposed to get AF last Thursday and nothing. So I took a test on Friday...Negative. I took another one yesterday afternoon and was sure that I saw the barest hint of a pink line. SUCCESS, I thought!!! I even went to pick up cinnamon buns from the grocery store last night so I could suprise my DH with the news in the morning (i.e. - "Honey...I think there's something in the oven, will you go check???"). I took another test this morning...just to be sure, and it was totally negative!! But still, not a hint of AF.


Has this happened to anybody else? Did it ever end up being a pregnancy? I'm not totally regular in my cycles, but I've never completely missed a period before (or even been more than three or so days late).


Any thoughts, advice or encouragement would be much appreciated...thanks ladies!


Amanda


Mom to Jackson 3/13/07


Hoping for EDD 1/7/10

Penn Girl
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Registered: 01-03-2008
Tue, 05-05-2009 - 11:52am

I'm sorry. What a emotional ride. You might be one of those people who do not show a + test for awhile. Do you have a dr that might be able to do bloodwork?


Anna


P.S. Very cute idea for telling DH

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Registered: 05-05-2009
Tue, 05-05-2009 - 12:27pm

Hi ya I understand you emotions this is my first time posting to a board or anything like this although I do read them frequently i have been TTC for 21months my cycles are not regular but come within four or five days every month... My last AF was 16th March... got BFP then about twenty BFN.... Went to doc she didnt do blood test but urine came back negaitve!! GRRR heart broken and dont understand why i got such positive results i had taken pic and sent to BH when he was at work... AF still hasnt arrived devastated and confused but not doing anymore tests as doc says im not pregnant and shouldnt waste the money... im 22!


Nichola

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Registered: 04-30-2009
Tue, 05-05-2009 - 1:55pm
wow-so sorry, I am between 1-3 days late (depending on which schedule I use) and I've had 2 negatives as well. Hoping for a BFP tomorrow for both of us!!
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Registered: 01-16-2008
Tue, 05-05-2009 - 2:07pm

We are in the same boat! My blood test last friday was BFN, but progesterone rising higher so RE said if no AF by Wed (tomorrow) then come in to retest.

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Registered: 05-05-2009
Wed, 05-06-2009 - 3:31am
BFN! Again! ffs! GRRRRRR..... I've been having symptoms like AF is about to arrive but nothing and now very very late almost due for my next period! Its so great to know that you are not alone! how was your test this morning?
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Registered: 04-30-2009
Wed, 05-06-2009 - 9:27am

I got a BFN today on a digital so I'm sure it's right. I am in a funk, and wondering how I can keep doing this. I know I've probably caused me to be late from the stressing out about the whole thing.

AF still hasn't arrived and I am now between 2 and 5 days late depending which cycle number you use.

DH is traveling 2 times during next cycle so that makes it "Fun" too.

Good luck!
Danya TTC#3

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Registered: 05-05-2009
Wed, 05-06-2009 - 11:32am

Hi ya! gosh it is really difficult being in this situation you always think it will just happen when you wantt o concieve but the heart break is almost unbearable when you see that negative result on the stick... wish there was something i can stay to help you feel a little better but dont know what i can it so hard!


just keep smiling and dont miss DH too much when he goes away :D

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Wed, 05-06-2009 - 11:53am

I haven't tested today (I'm almost scared to do it). I did have a little spotting this morning, which makes me think I'm back on this rollercoaster for another month at least (unless it's from implantation? Ah, eternal optimism). I'll probably test tomorrow if AF still hasn't made a full

Penn Girl
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Wed, 05-06-2009 - 10:34pm
Well, I was hoping that 3 negative tests were all wrong, but AF showed tonight-late. On to next month.
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Wed, 05-06-2009 - 11:26pm

I also hardly write on here. Mostly im just a 'reader'. but im in the same boat. my 1st and 2nd