"Afraid" to BD after "O"

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Registered: 07-28-2003
"Afraid" to BD after "O"
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Fri, 08-15-2003 - 1:15pm
Hi,

I was just wondering if there is anyone else besides me that is afraid to BD after Oing.

DH is getting in the mood again after a few days off, but I have it in my head if we BD, but not for REAL BDing purposes, it will affect my insides or and the egg won't implant properly or it will dislodge the egg.

I know it is crazy thinking...you should have seen me when we were TTC#1. I was the same way!!

-Donna

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Registered: 06-23-2003
Fri, 08-15-2003 - 1:19pm
I have thought the same thing before, but I have read it doesnt make any difference at all. I also read that you having the real "O" doesnt affect anything either.

Have a blast!

Stephanie

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Registered: 06-17-2003
Fri, 08-15-2003 - 1:33pm
Steph's right! Your cervix closes after you O so don't worry about having the BD fun! I actually enjoy the BD for non-baby purposes even more because it's just very spontaneous, I don't have to worry about what position, do I have a pillow handy, etc.

Have fun!!!!! We all deserve it!! Remember, once you make the baby, BD frequency goes WAY down. My best friend nevers has BD any more, she has a two year old and one on the way!!

Cat

TTC#1, C5, CD10

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Registered: 07-28-2003
Fri, 08-15-2003 - 1:50pm
Thanks for the info.

I guess DH will be very happy this weekend (LOL). We are going on vacation at the end of next week with family, so BD will be difficult then. Need to have fun before we go and relax. Hopefully it will take my mind off of counting my DPO's too.

-Donna

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Registered: 07-09-2003
Fri, 08-15-2003 - 4:58pm
OMG i do that to. so funny. but i get scared to bd so close to when af is

due. im afriad that bd will bring on af. like if we dont i will magicly

be preg. im nuts. lol

Angela