Am I the ONLY one?!?!
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Am I the ONLY one?!?!
| Tue, 09-09-2003 - 8:41pm |
I keep reading how husbands love the BD fests, or how someone was really "in the mood" after getting off the pill and that her husband loved it, etc. etc. Am I the only one who wants sex more than her husband?!? I'm almost embarassed to admit it, like I'm unattractive or undesirable or something. Granted, right now he's in refit (insanely busy time in a submariner's schedule) so he works crazy hours, has to sleep on the boat every few days and stuff like that. BUT we've been BDing more now that we're TTC than we were when he wasn't on this crazy schedule. He's YOUNG (24) so shouldn't he always want it?! It's weird when HE'S not in the mood but I always am. I never turn him down (even if I don't really feel like it) so it kinda hurts when he turns me down. Anyway, this is getting more embarassing! LOL.
I was just wondering if anyone else's husband were like that. I want it MORE, even after we conceive! lol



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My husband and I both work full-time, but we plan for me to be a stay at home wife next year, regardless of whether we have a child or not.
In ten years of marriage we both happily settled into the routine of "sex on the weekends". Now that we are TTC, I'm having problems motivating him to fulfill his part of the job!
I often get the "I'm tired. Can't we do this tomorrow?" even when I seduce him. I asked him about it, and he said he's been "trained" to only want it on the weekends . . .
Frustrated, I asked the women on TTC Your First Child board what to do and was advised to try the Clear Blue Fertility Monitor. So, I plunked down the vast sum of money and it arrives this Friday. I'm just tired of fussing with him about it, and he agreed that when the test says "go" we go.
Wish me luck and I'll wish the same back at you. The rascals!
I wish now that I had bought one of those monitors!!!!!!
Camille
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Carla
#2 EDD 6-21-06
#1 Baby Boy - Born 8-16-04
On a serious note - he says before we were TTC he would want to start something (at very inconvenient times) and I would say no - so he says now that is why he doesn't start things more often because he was sick of getting all riled up only to get rejected. Now I don't remember that so much but what can I say - I think he justs likes getting seduced!
you are not along, girlfriend!!!
Laura (29) DH(32)
TTC#1, C4, CD17, 2 or 4 DPO
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