ANGRY & SAD I'm not pregnant yet!

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ANGRY & SAD I'm not pregnant yet!
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Sun, 02-22-2009 - 8:36am

Just a quick vent ladies, please feel free to chime in if you're feeling angry and sad

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Sun, 02-22-2009 - 10:02pm

Hey, thanks for the hugs qtzie!

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Sun, 02-22-2009 - 10:14pm
Thanks Laura!

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Sun, 02-22-2009 - 10:15pm

Helene,


That is exactly my problem is comparing TTC #1 to TTC #2.

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Sun, 02-22-2009 - 10:15pm

Amanda,


Thank you for that!

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Registered: 09-13-2008
Sun, 02-22-2009 - 11:00pm

Me! I feel pretty much the same way as you. I'm also angry and sad that this is now cycle 4 of TTC. I'm angry and sad that I had a miscarriage. I'm angry and sad that I didn't even ovulate this month.

But like you I'm also grateful for my children.

Chris mom to Ashleigh, Madisyn, Emely, and Catie
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Mon, 02-23-2009 - 1:23am

I'm in the same boat! This is our 4th cycle TTC and it's been a long 4 months. I too feel guilty for feeling so angry and frustrated when there are other women who have tried much longer.


DH and I are TTC our 1st, we've been together forever and I put off having kids because I was selfish (not wanting to gain weight, losing the weight, etc) if I had known this would not come easy I would not have waited so long.


We wanted to get pregnant by Christmas 2008 and stupid us thought it would happen on the first shot, well, 4 months later and still nothing.


Currently I should have ovulated today and will start the DPO stage and hopefully in two weeks I will get my BFP. I want this more than anything I've ever wanted and I really, REALLY feel like this could be it. We did EVERYTHING we could and now it's just up to GOD to see it through. I hope he can grant us this miracle because only he truly knows how badly we want this and he knows how bad I've been hurting and I would hope he would not want to keep this hurting going.


But, as they say, EVERYTHING HAPPENDS FOR A REASON!!! So I hope the last 3 months were to prepare us for what's to come!!!


Me: 24 years old     

DH: 25 years old

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Registered: 12-11-2006
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 8:09am

Hey Chris,


That sucks to not even have a shot at TTC when you didn't ovulate.

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Mon, 02-23-2009 - 8:12am
Waiting to Be Preggers,

I hope you get your BFP soon too!

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Mon, 02-23-2009 - 10:50am

Oh yes, I'm right there with you. We've been at this

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Registered: 02-17-2009
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 12:20pm

Hi,


It took me 4 years to get pregnant between my first and second child and then it only took 2 months of trying between baby 2 and 3.

Kassandra

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