Anyone nervous about the next baby????
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Anyone nervous about the next baby????
| Wed, 10-08-2008 - 1:51pm |
I have one son...he's my first and only and what I was put on this earth for...to be his mommy!

CINDY
DD SARA CARINA (6/8/07)
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Every once in a while I do get nervous.
Tammy
my only nervousness is having 3 children...LOL but I think if you have one..you can handle two and if you can handle two...you can handle 3 etc and etc...:)
I think we're all probably nervous at least a little. I'm definitely feeling how you are. Its hard enough with one but I can't imagine not having more. We're actively TTC and hopefully will get a BFP next week. Its hard too spread yourself around too everyone who needs and or wants you attention. GL to you I'm sure you'll do great. *babydust*
:) *hugs*
Jenny
Hi Sylvia,
I have a lot of the same feelings that you do. I also have a son, my one and only, and sometimes I just can't image my life with another. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely want my son to have a sibling but sometimes I get really freaked out. My husband travels a ton and I worry how I could handle both a newborn and a toddler home alone a few days each week. But even if he didn't travel I would still be nervous. All those late night feedings and then trying to chase a toddler on very little sleep...it kind of scares me! :)
Honestly though, I know just how you feel and I bet a lot of other moms do, too. And I really believe once you get pg and then once that sweet baby arrives all those worries will melt away!
Brandy
Carrie, ttc #2
wife to Alexander
Hi TTc #2 mommies!
Here I am. Concerned. But the worst concern to me is that my love for my DD is Sooooooo huge! i love her so much that my chest hurts!
Am I able to love #2 as much as I love her? I have to share my love equally? And If I get to love one more than another, is that possible?
I have to love them both to death, that's the worries.
I don't think taking care will be such a deal :)
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Like you, i was put on earth to be a mommy, to my kids :o). i was not nervous when i had my first. Not nervous about money, etc. even now, not nervous about money except the usual lady-worries, but overall, i know god will provide.
I was a teeny bit worried about handling 2 young kids, when i was PG with #2, but i was MORE worried (VERY worried) about whether i woul dget to have as much time with my first child, when the second came along. I spent time inspecting every flower, eveery blade of grass, every speck of dust with my DD. would i be able to do that with a NB around?? i would cry about that!! It all turned out fine, we still inspect grass and dust, do everything, LOL and DS is there to bug us while we do.
turned out 2 kids was pretty easy, compared to how hard i THOUGHT it would be. i was pleasantly surprised.
now, i am thinking about a 3rd, and i wonder how hard it will be to do the marketing, housekeeping, etc. i am sure it will be fine. but YES i am a little nervous!
Jenny
with DH Tighe, 4.5 yo Janey and 23 mo Edgar B
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11/1997 - Found my future husband!
5/2003 - Married my love! Life is Great!!
2/2004 - had my Jane, 9 months later ;-) Life just keeps getting better!
5/2004 - diagnosed with MS. Life Sucks!!
2/2006 - FINALLY got pg with #2, after 2 years of waiting for fertility to return, 6 cycles of trying.
11/2006 - Edgar B (GERB) arrived
10/2008 - looks like another 2 years of waiting.... I am on cycle 5 of trying!!
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