Anyone nervous about the next baby????

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Anyone nervous about the next baby????
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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 1:51pm

I have one son...he's my first and only and what I was put on this earth for...to be his mommy!

~Sylvia     

 

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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 2:04pm
Not so much nervous as excited to get pregnant... after the BFP and into my second trimester the nerves will hit full blast... for now just nervous we won't BD at the right moment... wish we could just get pregnant like with my DD (a surprise) but since we are trying for real, too hard not to think about it... good luck for november

CINDY

DD SARA CARINA (6/8/07)

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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 2:05pm

Every once in a while I do get nervous.

Tammy


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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 2:11pm

my only nervousness is having 3 children...LOL but I think if you have one..you can handle two and if you can handle two...you can handle 3 etc and etc...:)

 


 

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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 2:27pm
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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 4:03pm

I think we're all probably nervous at least a little. I'm definitely feeling how you are. Its hard enough with one but I can't imagine not having more. We're actively TTC and hopefully will get a BFP next week. Its hard too spread yourself around too everyone who needs and or wants you attention. GL to you I'm sure you'll do great. *babydust*

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Jenny

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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 9:46pm

Hi Sylvia,

I have a lot of the same feelings that you do. I also have a son, my one and only, and sometimes I just can't image my life with another. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely want my son to have a sibling but sometimes I get really freaked out. My husband travels a ton and I worry how I could handle both a newborn and a toddler home alone a few days each week. But even if he didn't travel I would still be nervous. All those late night feedings and then trying to chase a toddler on very little sleep...it kind of scares me! :)

Honestly though, I know just how you feel and I bet a lot of other moms do, too. And I really believe once you get pg and then once that sweet baby arrives all those worries will melt away!

Brandy

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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 9:59pm
I am also ttc number two and nervous. I was just as nervous being pregnant with number one though, wondering how I would do, how I would handle it, etc...so I am hoping it will be ok, just like it was last time. :)

Carrie, ttc #2


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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 11:23pm

Hi TTc #2 mommies!

Here I am. Concerned. But the worst concern to me is that my love for my DD is Sooooooo huge! i love her so much that my chest hurts!
Am I able to love #2 as much as I love her? I have to share my love equally? And If I get to love one more than another, is that possible?
I have to love them both to death, that's the worries.
I don't think taking care will be such a deal :)

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Thu, 10-09-2008 - 6:06am
Yep, I'm nervous, too, but mostly because some people around me think it's bad timing (my parents in particular). The way I see it is if I wait until our finances are perfect, I'll be old and wrinkly! Life's too short - and as it is Bell will be 4 years older than #2 and I had originally wanted them closer together. Oh well, whatever will be will be, right? I can't worry about what my parents think forever - I still feel like a kid when it comes to them!


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Thu, 10-09-2008 - 8:08am

Like you, i was put on earth to be a mommy, to my kids :o). i was not nervous when i had my first. Not nervous about money, etc. even now, not nervous about money except the usual lady-worries, but overall, i know god will provide.

I was a teeny bit worried about handling 2 young kids, when i was PG with #2, but i was MORE worried (VERY worried) about whether i woul dget to have as much time with my first child, when the second came along. I spent time inspecting every flower, eveery blade of grass, every speck of dust with my DD. would i be able to do that with a NB around?? i would cry about that!! It all turned out fine, we still inspect grass and dust, do everything, LOL and DS is there to bug us while we do.

turned out 2 kids was pretty easy, compared to how hard i THOUGHT it would be. i was pleasantly surprised.

now, i am thinking about a 3rd, and i wonder how hard it will be to do the marketing, housekeeping, etc. i am sure it will be fine. but YES i am a little nervous!



Jenny


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11/1997 - Found my future husband!

5/2003 - Married my love! Life is Great!!

2/2004 - had my Jane, 9 months later ;-) Life just keeps getting better!

5/2004 - diagnosed with MS. Life Sucks!!

2/2006 - FINALLY got pg with #2, after 2 years of waiting for fertility to return, 6 cycles of trying.

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