Big Decision...What to do?!

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Big Decision...What to do?!
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Wed, 01-07-2009 - 2:34am

I have a "what would you do" type question. I took my last BCP on Oct. 22 and then we kind of used protection during November, and then started trying in December. DH and I had decided originally to only try through January or February, then take a break and start trying again in May or June. See, the winter months are already quite hectic for us (DH bday, Thanksgiving, my bday, Christmas, anniversary, and then DD bday in Feb), so we were hoping to have #2 in either Sept or October, or else wait and hope to have another in the spring. Anyways, I am expecting AF soon, and I am pretty sure she will show up as things were difficult to BD while we were on vacation for Christmas. Anyways, I get into TTC mode and I think it will be really hard to stop and have to wait for 3 more months, I am already having a hard time waiting and we are only in our first month of actively trying. So what would you do? I am so torn. I just worried about having another little one right in the middle of chaos, and I worry about our wallet with adding another bday during all of the holidays. Anyways, what would you do? Anyone ever been in a similar situation? TIA!

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Registered: 03-10-2005
Wed, 01-07-2009 - 6:08pm

Its a really hard decision to stop trying after you've started.

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Thu, 01-08-2009 - 1:27am
You are definitely right. It is totally out of my control, and I am trying to resign myself to this fact. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. They really helped me to think, and put things into perspective.

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