Big TMI question! WAY TMI...

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Fri, 09-12-2003 - 10:06am
Okay...I'm trying to keep my hopes up here...but if you guys think I'm probably out...please tell me!

This was the strangest thing...during the very early morning hours my DH and I did some "just for fun" BDing. (Around 1 a.m.) Well...before the actual BD, I had the other more fun "O" (blush) and immediately after had VERY painful cramping, like AF, for a minute or so. Enough that I said "ouch" out loud... It went away. So...DH and I started to BD...and I had to stop almost immediately because the cramping came right back. I went to the bathroom, and was spotting. (Yes...I lost it and cried because I'm totally sick of going around in this circle of waiting for yet another month).

DH was very sweet...he said he wondered if it could really be AF, because my temps had still been up pretty high...and I should wait to be upset until my temps drop or I'm bleeding heavily. We went back to bed...and I've had no more cramping since the BD.

My temp did drop some when I woke up this morning, but it is still way above the coverline. And Spot is still here...a light pinkish brown on toilet paper only.

Could this be implantation? Could BDing during implantation make cramps more severe? I've never heard of that. But, I've NEVER experienced severe AF cramps caused by BDing before. What do you guys think?

I'm really trying not to cry here. This is such an emotional rollercoaster. It seems especially hard to have gone through side effects of Clomid this cycle for nothing...and I dread starting Clomid again. But I will...

Someone give me opinions, please...

Here is my chart:

http://circles2.fertilityfriend.com/home/240a9

Thanks!

Anne

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Fri, 09-12-2003 - 10:26am
HI Anne,

I don't know how much info I can give you, but I can offer some support. I know all this waiting is the worst! I have had the cramping too, but without the spotting. What cd are you on? I guess the only way to know what is happening is to test, but I know that is also so nerve racking...wouldn't it be nice if there were clearer signs? Wish there was something more I can do. hang in there!!

Hugs,

Alicia

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Fri, 09-12-2003 - 10:40am
Hugs, Anne. The waiting is hard. I noticed that you seem to spot once after you ovulate on your charts, but this time is later than before. It is more around the time implantation would occur. But, as far as the cramping while BD goes, I don't know what to say. I am so sorry, hun. I hope it doesn't happen again. Keep us posted. If it is implantation, I would think you need to wait at least 3 days to test for the HCG to have time to build up. I hope that's what it is. GL!!

Leanne

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Fri, 09-12-2003 - 1:29pm
Anne, are you still spotting? I dunno, it still looks good to me. The timing seems to be corresponding with implantation.

It can be normal to cramp with orgasms. I read somewhere that they contract the uterus, SO if you did have any type of small amount of blood from implantation, it could be possible that the cramping could expel it.

Stay hopeful! :o)

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Fri, 09-12-2003 - 1:49pm
(((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) Anne, I'm hoping and praying for you that it really is implantation. Your temps still look fabulous, but I know that mine are always way above cl until cd2- yeah, it ticks me off cause I always heard they should drop, but I know from my charting for so long now that that is just how my body works...so I hope this doesn't sadden you more- you're 10dpo, so it's still way early yet! Mega huge +++++++++++ PV's and more (((((((hugs))))))))) Hang in there Hon, it just isn't over till the old hag really sings! LOLove, Connie
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Fri, 09-12-2003 - 1:54pm
I have a friend who was cramping during sex and she went to the doc thinking something was wrong, but she was pg. Its common to cramp during sex in early pregnancy.

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Fri, 09-12-2003 - 3:57pm
Thanks Alicia,

Good luck to you!

Anne

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Fri, 09-12-2003 - 3:59pm
Hi Leanne,

Yes...the waiting is SO hard! I'm not bleeding anymore...just that spotting last night and when I first got up this morning...hopefully it was implantation.

I'll wait a couple of days and if AF does not show, I'll test again.

Take care,

Anne

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Fri, 09-12-2003 - 4:02pm
Hi Heather,

Nope, I'm not spotting anymore. Just a little when I first woke up this morning and nothing since. No more cramping either.

Oh...I hope it was just implantation bleeding/cramping. All I can do is wait and hope AF stays away and my temps stay up. Of course, with my progesterone level being low, who knows...

Either way...I'm feeling better now and if I get a BFP, great! If not...so we'll just have to try again...on to cycle 6!

Anne

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Fri, 09-12-2003 - 4:05pm
Thanks for the hugs and the prayers Connie!!! Those help! :)

Now that I'm not spotting anymore...I'm holding out some help that just maybe it was implantation. Only time will tell...

Sending some (((Hugs))) and prayers back your way...now that you are off hold, hopefully the O fairy will come see you soon...and hopefully you'll be announcing your BFP really SOON! I'll be watching for that announcement!!!

Take care,

Anne

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Fri, 09-12-2003 - 4:06pm
Oh Oli!!!

I liked hearing about your friend who was PG and that was why she had cramping during sex!!! Gives me a little hope!

Thanks!

Anne

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