CD 35 - Spotting but no AF

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Registered: 09-25-2011
CD 35 - Spotting but no AF
Wed, 09-28-2011 - 2:08pm

I'm so frustrated right now. I got a BFN this past Sunday. I have refused to test since then because every BFN hurts. I started to spot slightly yesterday and early this morning and now it's completely gone. I feel like this is all I can think about and I have no one I can talk to in the "real" world.

My last cycle lasted 30 days and then AF arrived, the witch that she is. I feel so out of control with not knowing now how long my actual cycles are - has anyone gone past 35 days?

 BabyFruit Ticker
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Registered: 12-14-2009
Wed, 09-28-2011 - 4:00pm
Unfortunately our body can play some horrible tricks on us for a number of reasons...stress, illness, worrying, etc. I had a cycle that was 41 days. 11 days late but she finally showed. No explanation other than an annovulatory cycle or my OPKs were incorrect and I ovulated later. Either way, it was torture. But the next month went back to my 32 day cycle.

A lot of women will spot pre period. Definitely mention it to your OB/GYN and make sure they think it's normal because it could be for a number of reasons. Trust me when I say, I know what's it like to be disappointed with those BFNs each month. Keep us posted and if AF doesn't show in the next week, give your Dr a call. They might want you to come in to check things out. Good Luck Lucy!

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