depressed about not O'ing

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depressed about not O'ing
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Thu, 11-06-2008 - 6:28pm

So I don't know what to do at this point, other than wait (of course). My temps are still weird, lower than before, but werid none the less. I have had watery CM and a high, soft and open CP for the past 8 days, yet my temps are not consistant with O temps, and FF is telling me that based on my 'stats' I'm probably not fertile, but then says that due to my CM and CP, and I am 'most fertile"...I don't know what to think. i am contemplating on when I should go see a Dr. if I don't O and if No AF shows after a while and that I might be annov.?? I was very optimistic for this cycle, and was/am determined to get pg this time around but it is soo hard to stay optimistic with temps like mine. Why would I have so many other fertile signs?? I had some significant O pain most of the morning yesterday, which got me really excited, but when I temped this morning there was no spike, its actually lower than where its been this entire cycle. If there is no bfp this month, I am going to start temping vaginally and hopefully (from what I have heard) my temps should smooth out.


We are going to continue to BD just in case I am O'ing, and its just not registering anywhere else (<--fingers crossed!!)


Any input would be appreciated!! :)

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Thu, 11-06-2008 - 6:41pm
The dip could be promising!

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Registered: 09-08-2008
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 7:02pm

Well it looks like maybe you are having an pre O dip???

~Sylvia     

 

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Thu, 11-06-2008 - 10:17pm
aWW. It will come..your cycle can be whacky when you get off the pill. I didn't o until cd 54 coming off the pill. I know how fustrating it can be.

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Registered: 01-13-2006
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 10:37pm

Thank you so so much Sylvia!!

I had some o pains about an hour and a half ago, and that's made me more optimistic. I never realized that you o on the day before your temp spike. So I am hoping that my temp is way way up in the morning!!

Thanks so much for the support ladies!!! Even tho it hasn't been that long of a journey for me, it definatly has been tough!!

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Fri, 11-07-2008 - 1:01pm

Thanks :) You're right, it is frustrating....I had a pretty normal cycle last month, which was my first month off bcp, so I guess that got my hopes up that

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Registered: 09-08-2008
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 1:08pm

Hi Em, in order for FF to give you CH you have to have 3 'high' temps (higher then possible O).

~Sylvia     

 

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Registered: 04-17-2003
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 1:30pm
I would give it some time before you see a doctor. You are only on cycle 2. It takes a healthy woman on average 1 year to get pregnant. It tooks 7 months with my first daughter. Now, I'm on month 6 trying for our second. Hang in there. Also, trust your instinct/body when other data doesn't match. I think your cervical fluid is a better measure of if you are fertile than charting your temps. There's so many factors that can affect your bbt. Don't stress over the chart.
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Fri, 11-07-2008 - 1:30pm

really?? ohh you are right!!!!!! that makes sense!! Here I am over here checking FF every ten mins to see if maybe they added CH...what a nerd I am!! lol Well now I am more anxious than ever to temp this weekend!! :)


You just made my day better..even though its not definate that

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Registered: 09-08-2008
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 1:46pm

I'm glad I could help a fellow cycle buddy out LOL.

~Sylvia     

 

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Registered: 01-13-2006
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 1:59pm

lol I always give in early. I can tell you that if I do get CH on sunday that I am probably going to start POAS next Sunday (which would be 10dpo for me) I bought some cheapie hpts online last cycle, and AF came before the HPT's did, so I have a good supply for me to go POAS-crazy!!!


good luck!!! :)

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